The antivirus: Used to be good, decent free (in price) tool if you're in a situation where you need one. Otherwise, Windows Defender is good enough for your needs. (And just don't install goofy ahh apps on Android, you also don't need one there).
The VPN: Same as any other VPN company. Chances are you don't need one, and all of them are based fully on trust. "Least bad" VPN award goes to Mullvad.
NordVPN (and their entire service stack) is not trustworthy at all.
This person does not understand open source or Android whatsoever. They talk a decent bit about "default installed apps", without properly understanding what most of them even are. They complain about some apps "being out of date" when installing CalyxOS, calling it "concerning" that they're not on the latest version out of the box, as if they couldn't update the apps themselves. The whole "review" feels more like an iPhone user trying to switch to Android for the first time, being confused because it's different, and complaining about it because they don't understand it.
The main benefits of CalyxOS lie under the hood. It's built to be more secure out of the box, and doesn't connect everywhere without consent like most other Android ROMs. If you're fine with the privacy and security of using something like LineageOS, CalyxOS doesn't have much extra to offer.