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Yaaaaas, Queen 😝. I truly feel like we are building community on here. Like, I've seen more femboy/sissy/cd stuff on my local lemmynsfw feed lately. I recently realized something pretty obvious, that people need to be able to expres their authentic selves to fully experience or benefit from community. That's an issue generally only for people who are not very mainstream (and privileged). People do "flock together:" queer people seeking out queer spaces, migrant communities often cluster together, etc.

The teasing about less than studly performance sounds hot to me. I've been thinking about dabbling in a little erotica, like writing a short story about sissy/chastity/femdom/cuckolding/spanking. I partly see it as a little 'mental housekeeping' - to articulate things I've spent countless hours half thinking about. Including teasing never occurred to me. Kink is a common way of working through and with personal issues (very akin to play therapy in children), so the teasing you mention sounds healthy to me.

Re: nighttime erections. As it turns out, I took a little look into this today. (Not because I'd like to induce impotence without HRT or surgery /s.) The medical consensus is that 'nocturnal tumescence' (defined for women too - 'morning bean,' I love that) probably serves a maintenance purpose (for engorgement ability). I didn't directly look into clinical pathways, but it was suggested in what I read that nocturnal tumescence tests (ie, something goes around the penis to measure its diameter overnight; tear-away paper or electronic monitoring) are pretty common in treating ED. They are used to differentiate psychological ED (can't perform but gets nighttime erections) from physical ED (can't perform and no/reduced nighttime erections) that would be likely attributable a neurological, vascular, and/or hormonal condition. Who knew lemmynsfw was so educational rofl 🤣

I appreciate you explaining the value of the strap in terms of discomfort striking less often ☺️. I was looking at straps this morning. Do you recommend the belt like ones (ie, goes behind the back only) or the jock like ones (ie, goes behind the back and between the legs). Do you see value in the CherryKeeper cages that have special side loops for the strap to tie to? Or, do you prefer to fasten the straps on the main chastity cage ring?

Hope you continue to update us.

Thanks KK, I hope so too 🥰! Lately I've realized that some community and connection around this stuff might be really healthy for me. So, I titled that update #1 - hoping there will be more. Case in point: I went to a doctor's appointment a couple weeks ago, and was reaching for my shoes "because it's an office." But I was reminded of your, "show off your pedicure, girl!" encouragement, and did just that. Thank you 😘

Yeah, sleeping in chastity is definitely in the realm of "is that real or just wank material?" I think it might be doable for - at least some nights for me - we'll see. I've been having some major sleeping issues lately sans chastity (e.g., up for 3 hours in the middle of the night) that I attribute to anxiety/depression. I slept better than that last night - but not a great sleep. It's obvious the chastity can cause some noctural erection-related issues. I wonder if, for me, those are partly offset by a reduction of (gender) dysphoria. I also went to my doctor and got erection pills in my early 20s. I think those erection difficulties were about gender dysphoria and performance anxiety. But, I defintely can't get as hard as most (although this might affect effortful versus nighttime-reflexive erections much more), and that might be an advantage to me when it comes to sleeping in chastity. A girl can hope, anyway!

Re: your last paragraph: I'm really glad I got off reddit. I sometimes visit sissyology via libreddit. With more time away from that platform, it seems so obvious to me how disconnected from reality so much of the content is. I think that realization has been really helpful for setting realistic expectations for myself

Thanks Jaime! 🥰. I wouldn't mind a chastity strap. And might look into one. I'm actually in probably a rare camp for chastity wearers - my cage doesn't hang down and it's rare for me to be unsatisfied with the ring not being flush against my body. I have a 'headlock' CherryKeeper cage, where the cage narrows right behind the coronal ridge of the glans/head. This is designed to be an anti-pullout measure, but it also works to keep things close to the body. I am a little squished in my cage, and probably couldn't wear it for a week, for example. So if I got a different cage I might need versus want that strap. Thanks again 😘

I'm increasingly like "it has to match" 😤 lol. I bought myself a couple matching thongs and bralettes yday actually 🥰. I hope the bra cups aren't too big and that they breathe a bit 🤞. What kind of bras do you like? I'm all about bralettes bc I want to wear them steathly underneath tops (usually button-ups - they conceal bra lines the best)

Damn that's one sexy gif! 🔥 I find the sight of the uninvolved pussy during anal so hot, and this is such a good position for that

I need more tops

Same. Although I recently dug out this cute crop hoodie that idk why I wasn't wearing. It's warm and let's me go about my day inside midriff exposed - and not too chilly to do so like I typically am. So that's been nice 😛. What kind of tops would you like to get?

Glad I could help ☺️😘

I think decent people can probably build the internet they want but it’s harder now. I think the federated thing is a good start.

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I'm nostalgic for past internet too (and worried about where internet's headed). Great body. Great cock. I'd love to take it as deep in my throat as I could and take your load on my face. Cute pants too ;)😘

Thanks for the inspiration! Going to a party in a skirt would rock my socks off. I get envious of women in summer dresses - the dresses look so beautiful and practical from a temperature perspective. I hope you're able work up the courage to start wearing dresses out soon! 🥰

Heck yeah, anklet gang 😎! I have a plain black one. I'd like to get one more colourful or stylish...