Right - frankly I only have a dbzer0 account because I thought the general vibe was less factional than .world or sht.justworks, it's surprising me that so many people seem to be loosing the forest for the trees on this.
There are very few other FOSS projects that I use every single day, and I don't hesitate supporting any of them even though I have no idea what their personal views on worker liberation or trans rights are. I'm quite confident that I align more with the ML lemmy devs politically than most of the other FOSS project developers I interact with, and not because I agree with them on the use of state power or trans exclusion.
Anyway, Nutomic is saying there are support links you can donate through that do not go towards the ml server costs - I recommend anyone who's using lemmy and has an issue with the .ml political views donate through those instead of throwing the baby out with the bathwater by boycotting the platform they're enjoying.
Just don't do anything that'll raise attention to your opposition to fascism, tho