Ah, I totally misunderstood. Downvote recinded !
EDIT: I actually double misunderstood, I hadn't even realized the guy I was responding to mentioned bill reminders at all, my bad !
amanneedsamaid
joined 2 years ago
Deadass, doing the same thing he did in almost any other place or time throughout human history would've led to an execution.
That comparison makes no sense.
SimpleX has worked great in my experience! Currently torn between SimpleX and XMPP.
I cannot recommend Siskin, as those in my life that have tried it have always experienced random issues. I find Monal to be a better experience in every way, except for the lack of calling support with Conversations.
I would say not inviting that person is doing it intentionally, as everyone knows that person isn't in the group chat. Also, it does not make you much harder to invite, it's literally just letting your friend know outside of the group chat.
If your friends leave you out of things for this reason, they don't want to hang out with you very much.
If the friends in the group chat don't hit you up individually to let you know about those things, then why would you want to spend time with them in the first place?
From everything I've ever anecdotally experienced, this could not be further from the truth.
Seattle Sounders, they're saying they would change that to anything else.
I've found Dino to be the most seamless XMPP client, a bit easier to use than Gajim. I'd recommend giving it another go!
XMPP is far superior to matrix for one on one and group messaging, imo. Matrix is useful for communities, as you said, like discord is.
If now that youve left the groupchat your roommates just forget to invite you, even if that what they're used to, that says A LOT about your friends. I disagree that sending you a message is "out of their way", it takes an infintismally amount of effort to message someone a time and place. Also, messaging you just is not out of their way, its right in their path if anything. (Assuming they have any desire to see you)