ToastedCoconuts

I'm afab, but identify as agender. I have gone through many of the thoughts you've written here, especially if I'm even allowed to call myself trans when it's not exactly feasible for me to get bottom surgery. I'm also aroace, in a similar way that you are

Have you considered trying testosterone? At a lower dose you can still get some bottom growth. You'll also have some of the other changes like thicker body hair, and lowering of voice. I was on T for about four months and didn't have any voice changes, but still had enough growth that I was content. I can go into more detail if you like, and there's some toys out there (and functional prosthetics) that help alleviate some of the bottom dysphoria. There's definitely no right way to be Trans or NB but it helps to have some anecdotal info when you're feeling lost.

I had an ex proudly tell me that was his high school nickname. I'm ace, and somehow neither of us realized what the problem would be

I'm either binging or restricting. There is no "healthy food intake" season of my life yet. Getting there! Going from a stimulant to clonidine has actually helped a ton

Ah, sorry. I didn't see it when I looked through the posts in this community

Thank you for taking the time to let me know!

My organic chemistry professor spent a solid 30 minutes explaining the difference between an em dash and an en dash so we could use them correctly in our lab reports. Then ended his little lecture with saying "They're in the special character menu of your word processor. Unless you're on Mac, then I suggest googling them."

I don't think any of us used either dash, but I'm just sad no one called him on his BS lol

I seem to have the bottom comment covered by my navigation bar constantly. This interferes with interacting with the comment. It also interferes with some menu actions, which is quite frustrating

I say this as someone with undying love for DS9: Disco mirror universe is the best one

Sidewalks and 15-25mph speed limits go a long way. Would be nice if there was little community stores for staples embedded in the neighborhood, but that's a foreign concept in American suburbs

I wonder if a bot comment in each post reminding people this is a safe space for women only (trans/nb inclusive) might help cool down any resentment or harassment from men? I don't know if piefed has the ability to sticky comments like reddit, but at these communities are still small enough that a comment won't get drowned

Edit: I guess this might be hindered a bit because plenty of people block bots