TerranFenrir

No, it's Zendaya

Jork it

I think I'm being good to my body. Hopefully I turn out like you haha

What a beautiful flag!

I like to believe that I won't go through this when I reach that age

<3

You lie that you don't fuck sharks?

Sorry for your loss. So from what I understand, he was a good person, supported you and gave you practical knowledge.

Follow up question- were there any times where you felt unsafe in his company? Where you felt afraid that he might hurt you (not necessarily physically, but in other ways that would change your life for the worse)?

When you were around him, did you trust him to do the right thing in regards to your life? Could you be yourself around him, without worrying that you might offend him in some way or the other?

I think I'm repeating the same thing again and again - did you feel comfortable with him having control over your life (when you were a kid ofc, not an adult)? Were you not scared that he would hurt you? What did that trust feel like? Did you feel safe?

Hey, no, I don't find it ironic or whatever. Ladybutterfly was trying to help, and that's all that matters. They were kind, they cared and offered resources. That's all that should matter.

Apologies mate didn't click about it being men only, let me know if you want replies from women.

Oh noooooo your inputs are still very helpful, don't worry. I still appreciate you replying haha.

I just had a slight preference for men and their dads because I figured I could relate to it better. I've seen dads generally being nice with their daughters, but absolute assholes to their sons (at least growing up in India). I figured that the perspectives would thus be different, that's all.

I'm sorry you didnt get the dad all children deserve.

Thank you. At least the good part is that I don't know how much I have missed (if I have at all). I've never really seen a "good dad" closely I suppose.

Have you found [email protected] People post when they need dad style advice or a hug.

I have, but I think my childhood still haunts me here. My hatred for older men with authority prevents me from going even close to this, or even being remotely comfortable with the idea of a "dad". It may be illogical or nonsensical, but hey... ig I need therapy for this lol ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

For those who had good dads, what is it like? Is it like having a good mom but male? Can you share the problems in your life with them? Do you really love them? If they were to not exist now, would you miss them?

I'm asking the above to men here who had "good dads".

Sorry for the weird questions above. I could never imagine myself loving an older, authoritative male figure in my life. I think it's like a fully blind person not being able to imagine colors? I'm not sure.

Like... Do you feel comfortable around your dad? Does it not feel confining? Like there's this void standing next to you, consuming all of the oxygen in the room?

For those with good dads, were they humble? Did they accept their mistakes? Did you feel comfortable going to them for support?

I have a hopeful hard-on rn (that they'll cause a vote split in the UCP)