These suggestions are very helpful, I'm gonna start by finding a shirt I like. I have jackets and maybe trousers that I can work with. Thank you!!
SterlingPooper
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smoke weed and watch hentai
Happy Pride
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One time someone posted about platonic snuggling with their girlie friends and tbh that's maybe the most dysphoric I ever felt
Imagine having a friend who wants to be that close to you. Imagine being physically close to another human being.
I didn't realize that friends are, like, affectionate, or that they can be. I feel like a broken baby, learning basic things as an adult.
I just want to be like the pretty people who have that effortless confidence. Who seem to make friends wherever they go, who seem to always be mid-conversation.
If I had girl friends, I would want to go shopping. I would want to learn about being a woman, about femininity. About being pretty and doing makeup and how to learn what shirts fit good. About being flirty and charming.
Apparently expressing this makes me intense. I don't think it's intense to think these things. If you do, I'd appreciate if you explained why. Because I genuinely don't see it, I'm just speaking my mind.
neurotypical socializing as I understand it
"If you want to be friends, I must see you standing in front of me on three separate occasions. We cannot speak until the third occasion, and you may only mention the weather or something we can both see in our immediate surroundings. If you say too much, the offer will expire. I will smile confusedly and that will be your sign that the offer has expired. Say the perfect amount of words, and I will smile casually, signaling that we are moving towards friendship. We are not yet friends. If you want to be friends...
Is it just me or has the megathread gotten kinda quiet since I've been back
Going to a wedding next week and am trying to figure out how to make a suit more androgynous/femme. I'm out to most of my cousins, but I'm only really close to a few people in the family. Everything online suggests doing a dress, which I personally am not about
mixed feelings going into pride
I don't know what to expect. Any time I hope, like maybe a new connection will happen, that doesn't really work out. I feel like a fed just walking around quietly by myself
I'm hoping to collect goodies, I guess. Idk.
My town's Pride is happening today, which I'm excited about
Literally looking up "chosen family" because I don't understand how one forms/how to be part of such a thing
Idk, hope this gets better, because I'm close to saying some dumb shit
They're calling it the Miracle Over the Mojave
The Fielder Method but for learning feminine mannerisms
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My local Pride was fun!! I walked around collecting goodies. I'm a sucker for things with rainbows on them, and all the pan/enby colored collectibles. It was like 100° but I was vibing