Not really reliable, much less than wire guard. If your connection is unstable ssh not the best option. Autossh make it better, but still after a forced disconnection ssh will take a while to drop and reconnect. Wire guard is much better. I moved from ssh+autossh to wireguard and wished I did that sooner.
Beg your pardon... After my 40 all I want is good weather and time to go running or cycling or maybe swimming in a lake.
No way would like to spend time drinking alcohol or watching shitty TV.
YMMV.
Fully agree on the I don't want to go out, meaning social life, too much. Except going out cycling with my sport buddies, ofc
Wire guard to the vps with nftables port forwarding.
Check my wiki here https://wiki.gardiol.org/doku.php?id=networking%3Awireguard_redirects
Or setup ssh with port forwarding as well. Less reliable but nothing to install on a basic Linux.
Rest+backrest and the 3.2.1 rule.
One backup local on an external drive on my server Second backup on another disk connected to a WiFi ap in the house.
Third off site backup copy on my VPS.
All done by rest.
I use radicale. Safe and solid. Zero php.
You need to install a separate app if you want a web based calendar ui, or you can just use dav5x on android or any other caldav client.
Respect her and her needs. If she doesn't want, there are good reasons for that.
She is underage, so that also counts maybe?
Maybe she is protecting you, or herself... Can you tell?
I never looked at or considered uovotes and downvotes, so, who cares if they are enabled or disabled.
You don't need confirmation from strangers online to feel confident...
Feels like P.K.Dick, but actulized with current day terminology.
Good work
I did, a few times. Small amounts, but i think it's important to contribute.
"Download"... More like exchange infected floppy disks with friends.
Yeah, I never had a virus or heard of somebody get a virus for real since floppy disks times.
I wasn't technically married, but after 10 years it was like it.
Anyway, technically i ended it by cheating on her, but in retrospective she had't been fulfulling her part of the relationship on oh so many levels, and i was looking (cowardly) for a way out. So the cheat become my actual wife and we have been happy ever after.
It's been the best change in my life ever. but my knees don't always agree.
As a life lesson, you need to make experience. You need to know what you want from life, and you need to learn how to care for somebody. Before these three checks are green, your relaitonships will not be lifelong or positive. Break from bad relaitonships and learn from them, but most of all, learn from yourself. Find out who you are, then start grow a couple. Find a better person than you are as your SO, learn together and grow together.
and, most of all, do not follow advice from strangers on the net.