disgusting squishy, drippy blushing slut of a vegetable
Tomatoes are actually a fruit, not a vegetable.
In sci-fi proper that is also a plot point of Isaac Asimov's The Foundation. The giant galactic empire collapses and all the scholars are holed up on a planet to preserve knowledge. They then go out to other planets and give technology, but everyone is so ignorant that it seems like magic and the scholars kind of roll with it.
Everyone has different comfort levels when interacting with people. Try and find situations where you feel it would be less of a bother. For example, if Spanish is a language you are learning, you can go to a Spanish or Latin American restaurant, and mention you want to practice. It is worth asking if the server speaks the language, so as not to assume.
A program I have used to help with outlining is Manuskript. It has a series of questions it will ask you to help with character and world building. It also has a section to write the novel in and keep track of chapters.
It is a bit on the older side, with the last update about a year and a half ago. It is available on Flathub if you want to take a look: https://flathub.org/apps/ch.theologeek.Manuskript
These cows look cute. On the other hand, one night I was driving through farmland on a dark and stormy night and my windshield wipers were grimey. I pulled over to wipe off the grime, and in the piercing light of the headlights I saw about 10 cows walk over to check out what was going on. The reduced visibility due to the rain made them look more menacing, lol.
At that point, it basically circles back to horses.