Penguinblue

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 years ago

That's like a different, more gross kind of ADHD tax.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Wasn't it Sony wanting a reset in case no agreement was reached with Disney so they had free reign to take the story wherever that wanted?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Looking at the pictures there seems to be a lot of Technic inside and, from what I can tell, only the nose and wheels go up and down so I'm interested in seeing an in depth review of this.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

Our stories sound similar. Calm, relatively stable upbringing and then mostly self isolation leads to symptoms being unrecognised until children and other stresses build up and the symptoms are no longer under control.

The best suggestion I can give you is learn to accept your limitations (I'd say that to anyone, really). Managing two children is stressful for most people, for you even more so. That's a fact and it's OK. You get overwhelmed when there's too much going on. That's a fact and it's OK. Sometimes we aren't going to be able to cope in life. That's a fact and it's OK. So in this situation, you now know that you will find it too difficult to manage your kids where you are without support from your wife. That's a fact and it's OK.

Maybe you could arrange to take them somewhere else that has less sensory stimulation next time, or you agree with your wife that she has time to do things like shopping when you are at home with the kids. It's difficult to give suggestions without knowing where you were, but hopefully you get the idea.

Depending on how old your children are, speaking to them to ensure they know not to run away without you (and reinforcing the boundary when they do run away from you) can also help. (Most) Children like having responsibilities.

Mostly forgive yourself for not being able to cope in that situation. Modern life doesn't allow any parent to be perfect, but we can aim to be good enough and that's even more the case for neurodivergent parents. Give your kids a hug and tell them you love them then accept their love when they give it back. I definitely struggle with that but recognise how important it is.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 years ago (3 children)

There has been a few posts about this person, I blocked them and their magazine so I remember, and there was no consensus on those posts. It's a question for @ernest as he runs the show.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

There's plenty of news instances so I'm sure your posts will be welcomed.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

This is the answer. I started writing something then realised I'd just rewritten what you had written in different words. Autistic people tend to be less able to recognise what their body is telling them. I recently said to my partner that I have been exhausted and really tired and she responded that I'd had a busy week, done 9 hours of driving in heavy traffic and terrible weather and had poor sleep. I thought there was something really wrong with me, she pointed out perfectly valid reasons for me feeling the way I was.

It's called "interoception" for anyone that wants a new special interest (or to add to theirs): https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/professional-practice/interoception-wellbeing

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 years ago

This is a valid point but Amazon also sells a lot of books based on pseudo-science and debunked claims. It's pretty clear they are not an ethical company so they absolutely will do nothing to stop AI generated books.

For anyone that thinks AI books are not a problem, I recommend this article and the Behind the Bastards two-parter that goes along with it: https://shatterzone.substack.com/p/ai-is-coming-for-your-children

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

Hello from kbin, I was having this discussion with someone on another post about users views of the Reddit alternatives. I made a comment that I slightly prefer Raddle to the rest of the Fediverse because it is a closed community, largely for anarchists and queer folks. I've definitely noticed a creeping toxicity since I opened my account with kbin after moving from Reddit when everyone else did and, to prove my point, was reduced (down voted) by a conservative reactionary, judging by their posts.

Federation is a interesting and I wonder how things would be here if politics was less reactionary and more about discussion and consensus. Any instance benefits from federation through an increased user base but that necessarily comes with the impact of not being able to manage who is in that user base.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm on Raddle because I'm an anarchist and I honestly like it more than kbin/Lemmy. I like the discussion that goes on there that doesn't happen here so much. I worry this is becoming more and more like Reddit after seeing some toxic posts, too. I don't care that Raddle isn't federated, I like that it's unashamedly an anarchist and queer space which wouldn't happen if it was federated - there's a whole terf magazine on kbin, though it is very small right now.

Edit: I deleted my original post thinking I had accidently responded to another post but now I think I'm just getting confused by the green bar on the left side of my post on kbin, I guess to indicate its my post. Never noticed that before.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

I can definitely imagine that it happened/s on Reddit, yes. The thing that feels the saddest about doing that is that it really means nothing in no meaningful sense. Its such a impotent form of rage where they aren't debating or even telling you you're wrong, they are marginally impacting others' ability to see the post.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Something I do really like about this site is the ability to see the activity of posts including the reduces (down votes). So the guy that reduced the post above appears to be far right, judging by their activity. Fun!

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