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My boyfriend and I both struggle with this lol. I had a few books I had borrowed from a friend that I wanted to give back. For months I would be like "oh I need to give them back!" Whenever I looked at my shelf. Then one day I finally put the books in a neat little canvas bag and put them next to my favourite chair because it would be easy to grab and bring with me to work the next day.

One year later I put the books back on the shelf. My friend is chill about it. Hasn't even asked for them back. He has a few of my things too, that he has kept for years so we have mutual understanding.

My boyfriend has a few very specific hobbies that he tend to work on and then leave lying around without putting them away for months. I do that too, tbf. We just deal with each other's weirdness.

They are all Troy Baker anyway xD

I know the year most Disney movies came out. Not all of them, but probably more than I should know. Generally, I know the year of release for most movies I have seen.

When it comes to remembering useful things, I might as well have dementia.

The only thing I can think of is the dunning Kruger effect vs imposter syndrome but I don't think they are accurate in this case.

Because Dunning Kruger is more like when you learn about something new and become overly confident about it while people who are expert in the area are more aware of the complexity of the topic and how much thet don't know. Dunning Kruger is not necessarily about being dumb and arrogant, but more so a step in learning that tends to be a bit embarrassing in hindsight. I have definitely been there and I have had several students when they are close to graduating their degree act like they understand our industry better than I or my colleagues do. Which is okay because you probably need that confidence when you start out haha.

And imposter syndrome also doesn't really fit with it either, as it's more about feeling like a fraud in your field even if you probably aren't.

There probably are much better terms to explain what you're describing, but that's the best I can come up with haha.

I thought the omega thing was a myth that has been debunked, though? Pretty sure Dr. Russell Barkley has said several times that there are no supplements that has any real effect on ADHD.

The way I do it:

6+6 = 12 +1 = 13

Dunno how relevant calculating is to ADHD, but it is fun to see how people calculate things in their heads in different ways.

I would have gladly left the floor to you xD personally I'm not gifted at debating. The only time I decided to push back when this guy went on his pseudo philosophical monologues was when he started talking about the Jewish question. It wasn't very fruitful. I tried to make him understand where he was heading "intellectually" and he told me I was too small minded to think outside the box. We stopped talking eventually. He was one of the biggest tools I have met in my adult life.

Jeg kan huske en gruppe af de der nordfront-knægte stå i uniform, med flag, foldere og smørrede grin for efterhånden en del år siden. Kan ikke lige huske hvornår. Om det var før eller efter corona. Jeg kan bare huske at de stod der, ingen af dem en dag over 18 og følte sig super edgy. De prøvede at give foldere omkring hvordan religiøse symboler skulle forbydes og havde en hel liste af symboler med kryds henover. De prøvede også at give mig en af dem men jeg nægtede at røre ved noget af det. Jeg tror de blev jagtet væk kort efter de stillede sig op fordi de var pakket sammen og forsvundet da jeg gik forbi det samme sted lidt senere.

Jeg glemmer aldrig deres ansigter. Det vsr virkelig som at se en flok små drenge der har organiseret deres første rebelske initiativ og at de håber på at få reaktioner.

Måske var det derfor de fleste af os, der passerede dem nægtede at se på dem eller tale med dem. Jeg fortryder ikke at jeg bare gik videre og sagde nej tak til deres foldere. Hvis jeg havde stillet mig op og skældt dem ud, så havde de blot fået den reaktion de søgte.

Nordfront er for mig en flok teenagedrenge der endnu ikke kan gro overskæg, som leger edgelord og bruger rigtig meget tid foran computeren. Og det betyder ikke at de ikke kan blive farlige på lang sigt, men samtidig så ser jeg dem også som en flok pattebørn uden livserfaring, og som er blevet indoktrineret i en had-sekt på nettet fordi det får dem til at føle sig cool.

Jeg kender det. Jeg oplevede det selv som teenager, men min edgy fase var nitter, sort hår og metalmusik. Skræmmende hvordan unge i dag kobler hadefuld politik på deres edgy fase.

They are the embodiment of the saying "my last two brain cells".

Yeah... I find them to be somewhat rare in the wild, but I have met them a few times and I am always so severely secondhand-embarrassed for them that their cringe haunts me almost as much as my own cringe years later.

And I mean, I'm not talking about 20somethings acting cocky and like they know everything like some tend to do becuase that shit is just normal developmental stuff and I don't mind that. We have all been there.

It's when real adults act like attention starved, insecure dummies hiding behind fake confidence that I just crumble inside.

Once had a mid 30s guy talk about basic bitch life philosophy in a way like he was almost orgasming at his own brilliance and everybody around the table were so embarrassed for him. I don't remember what he was talking about, but like... some very basic shit and he kept acting like we were all too stupid to have had these thoughts ourselves. Probably it was something he had only just realized himself. And look, I get it! It's kinda awesome when some life-wisdom and philosophy-bah blah finally clicks for real in your head as you get older, but because of that guy I have since been scared of sharing any such revelations with anyone becuase I cannot bear the thought of ending up being the dumbest person in the room while I'm high on an epiphany that is nothing special to everybody else. Omg, I can't even think it without squirming.

I still think about that moment with the guy sometimes at night when I am going to sleep and one would think it would be a relief to force-think about cringe shit someone other than one self has done, but no. No it is isn't. It is just pain.

I cannot imagine what it would be like to be close to Elon as a family member or a friend. I would have fucking nightly panic attacks over the newest dumb shit he's done and feel embarrassed that he's my family member or friend. Like what does that say about me that I have a person like that in my life, right?

I have enough of my own lifelong cringe to carry. I can't carry other people's cringe too, man.

Then they just need to figure out how to use the non-cancer-gene from those blind naked African rats who can run equally fast forward and backwards, look like a wrinkly penis with legs and teeth and are friends with Ron Stoppable and we will have figured out a cure to cancer while regenerating body parts left and right. It'll be great.

Why do the black cats look so derpy? 😂