His other comments seem to imply that since it didn't happen to them, it doesn't happen on Windows period. That's just rejecting reality.
I've never protrayed Windows as overly terrible in my comments in this thread...or at least, I didn't mean to if it came out that way (i stand with it being a hassle to actually get it installed tho. Had to jump through so many hoops just for it to pick up the only drive plugged into my PC and recognize "oh hey, it's a valid drive". And this was Win10, not 11 either). Windows as an OS is fine, and has its own problems and quirks just like every other OS in existance does. If anything my problem with it comes from Microsoft basically going "no, you're going to use the OS you paid a liscene for how we say" and them (I assume it's them, anyways) reverting several of the changes I made to my settings with updates + it being so heavy to install--to where laptops and such that CAN'T handle it still come shipped with it by default despite preforming horribly because of it. But i never brought any of those up, just the fact that one of those updates messed up my install so bad I had to do a re-install, and it was annoying to actually do. I didn't call it a devil worship machine or whatever the heck the other guy keeps calling Linux lol
That doesn't sound like her getting spooked because you didn't have an insta, it sounds like she got spooked because instead of being straight up and going "I mean, I do, but it's old and I never really used it at all" you got weird and made up some weird BS about it.
And I know it's that because not only would it make me raise an eyebrow if some random did something like that to me, I always tell people "Unless you've got a Whatsapp, its either text me or call me. The two social medias i have are ancient, I barely used em in the past, and the logins are lost to time I'm pretty sure." Never given people weird vibes or anything by being honest like that, and we more often than not have a pretty nice time.
Also, being mindful of one's privacy does not make said person anti-social. I'm pretty protective of mine, but i still reach out and talk to my friends and family near daily via face to face or messaging, am pretty receptive to a stranger or acquaintance wanting to have a chat or a coffee with me after work, all that jazz. That I don't like the thought of Meta, Samsung, Google, and Microsoft snooping around people's info, trivial as it may or may not be and thus distince myself from them (within reason, mind. I can cut myself off completely, but that'd be making both life, work, and everything inbetween too much of an unnecessary hassle), doesn't diminish any of that.