MildAhoy

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Sorry about what you went through job-wise, glad you found a new gig and enjoy it.

Are you able to talk about your try at launching a startup? After getting RIFed, I immediately thought about going into self employment, creating a micro-saas or such. Obviously something like that is much more challenging than working for a salary at a company but I'm still hopeful and open to learning more about that route.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 hours ago

Good idea. I've always wished I could get a MRI but seeing an expert therapist would be a good compromise.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

I agree, the interviewing has gotten tougher because it’s an employer’s market. It’s more competitive, it just is, supply and demand.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

I’m in a similar boat, got RIFed late last year, waited for the new year and started applying. I’ve gotten a couple of final rounds but no offer yet. Last I checked, a coworker who got RIFed along with me hasn’t found a full time gig yet, either. In the past, it didn’t take more than three months to find a gig.

I’m hearing people are searching for a year+ for a new gig, not necessarily for SWE but tech in general. It’s a bad market for sure. But to be fair, the SWE job market has been hot for over a decade. Not trying to scare you, more trying to say there are others in the same situation, too. Low interest rate is over, seems like offshoring is coming back, plus there’s AI to boot. I see a lot of AI/LLM hate but I think some people are delusional. No, AI isn’t perfect but it’s delusional to think targeted use doesn’t increase productivity, which for some employers, means they can do the same or even more work with less people. Companies can choose to increase productivity or stay at the same level for less money.

Network, talk to your friends and their friends. I’m hearing it’s nearly essential in this market to try to get a referral.

Advice I haven’t seen here, host an app you’ve built and/or public git repos so people can see your code, if you don’t already. I suggest this because you are a bit on the junior side based on pure years of experience and are competing against seniors. Send out applications first and work on an app when you need a break or get bored.

Connect with recruiters, even external ones.

There are more applicants per job opening now than in the past. But if we keep applying, by chance our application will be near the top of the pile for some job openings, so it’s a numbers game and it’s just taking longer than usual to get an offer.

Like you, I’m considering a career change. Have you considered adjacent roles like solutions engineer or sales engineer?

For the time being, I’m continuing the SWE job search. Mostly just wanted you to know you’re not alone.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Maybe 'fundamental attribution error'? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fundamental_attribution_error

It goes both ways. Positive situations are attributed to merit and abilities (I work hard, I have grit, I'm disciplined) while negative situations are attributes to the environment (the gym was too crowded, there's only fast food places near my house).

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

No I haven't actually. I was thinking the glutes and hip flexors need to be stretched because their tightness is what is contributing to the pelvis tilting to the anterior. If they are strengthened, wouldn't that exacerbate the issue, because the muscles would get even tighter?

I'm open to trying something new, though. Hadn't heard of McGill Big 3. I'll check it out, thanks!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Haven't heard of that method, thanks, will check it out!

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Been training jiu jitsu on and off for about a decade. I regularly experience lower back pain after rolling, especially if I performed an explosive bridge during rolling or attempt a single leg takedown from standing and my back is bent. Even one explosive bridge will cause lower back pain later.

I most definitely have an anterior tilting pelvis, tight glutes and hip flexors. I’ve been stretching my hip flexors for years now, aiming for half an hour of stretching each day. My right side hip is much tighter than the left side one. I even wonder whether I have scarring around the tighter hip, though I can't remember what might have caused such a thing. If money wasn't an issue, I'd get a MRI to see definitively what is going on.

Recently started stretching my glutes, also. In an effort not only to address the lower back pain but improve my ability to leg pummel. I stretch my glutes by sitting in various cross-legged positions. An issue that comes up is right knee (on the leg of the tighter hip) is prone to pain when sitting in cross-legged positions. This can't be a coincidence. I suspect tight tendons, muscles, ligaments or whatever are pulling on my right knee when sitting cross-legged, causing pain. So I don't stretch my right glutes as long as I'd want to, out of fear of injuring my right knee.

Recently I’ve been focused on engaging my glutes as often as I can to correct the tilting of my pelvis and that seems to be helping with the back pain, which tells me the anterior tilting pelvis is likely indeed one of the culprits. For example, before bridging, I’ll make sure my glutes are flexed and my pelvis is "tucked" and rotated such that the anterior tilt is as minimal as possible. This has been helping but the lower back pain is still there, more or less.

Anything I might be missing with respect to stretching? Maybe I'm totally wrong about what might be the issue?

Thanks all.