Go into a bar or coffee shop and go to http://hackertyper.com/
Some lady once came up to me and my friends and asked if we were hacking things.
We lied and said yes. But we were just working on homework.
Sorry I didn't keep that info in my head. I read a few from the reddark discord, went to the first one and was happy.
My best guess is to do a search for:
federated community
Or:
Communities like lemmy
Third idea to search:
federated community -lemmy
The - removes the results from the search that match lemmy
One is a friend from college, the other is a comic artist I found on Reddit! I already told him to mosey on over here (lemmy). But we'll see. I'm still a Patreon so I get to see his art!