LadyButterfly

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Bingo. Plus if it drags on, he can attempt to stay in power because there's a war.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

They really are, they work like a magician convincing everyone that up is down and black is white. It's so subtle and effective

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

The whole world feels dangerous right now...

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

Awesome! Glad you're there

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

Being better at masking is a really good point! Lads also often avoid problems which could contribute

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 days ago (5 children)

This is a really interesting topic! I think you've made an excellent point here. Men are expected to be ever ready for sex, so when they refuse a woman that's gonna hurt. It really negatively impacts men as well... there must be men having sex before they're ready, with people they're not sure of etc.

I think it's important to remember women still do a disproportionate amount of household chores and childrearing. A tragic amount of women are sexual assault survivors which can make sex difficult. I also wonder how many secretly gay men are married to women and therefore not really enjoying the sex.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

That's good its not effecting you too much. Bottom line is if you're not financially fit, you're not financially fit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

I threw a sheep at you man. I threw a sheep.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (2 children)

You kept ignoring my farmville requests

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

That's rough mate. How much does not having kids effect you?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Haha corrected the typo now

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

I'm just sick of it, prices seem to jump every time I go the shops. I'm lucky I earn a good wage but even I've had to cut back. It's depressing and feels neverending

 
 

Hey all! We had a couple of glitches moving over but we're sorted now. If you couldn't see anything before please try [email protected] again

Thanks for bearing with us!

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Hey all! Weve just moved our comm from [email protected] to [email protected] How long will it take for posts to go over? Right now almost nothing is showing and it's been about 12 hours

 
 
 
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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Hey all!

As you can see we've moved house to [email protected] If your account isnt on piefed youll see old posts in the old comm, and new in the new. If youre on piefed you can see old in the new. You can get help at [email protected] you can access it no matter what instance you're from. On jerboa I can't see much atm but interstellar shows it all 🤷‍♀️

In short, we'd had enough of members being upset by the Manosphere jumping in and being nasty. Advantages of blahaj are...

  1. There's no downvoting, so people can't be harassed by downvote.
  2. There's really heavy moderating, blahaj pre-emptively bans known trolls and has zero tolerance on discrimination.
  3. Ada is fantastically supportive and really cares about creating a safe space.
  4. With piefed we can transfer the comm.

Apologies for not putting it to a vote or giving you the heads up. I didn't want to give the Manosphere a chance to cause issues before we went, or try to scupper the move altogether.

There are a couple of posts that vanished in the move and there's likely to be teething problems. But I'm feeling good about there being less stress long term. Just want to say a huge heartfelt thanks to Ada for all her hard work during the move! Ada you've been amazing 👏 🤩 ❤️

Any questions? Ask in the new community!

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Come say hi! [email protected] you can access it from any instance just give it a few days for the transition period. You can access from any instance but your app might not do it interstellar is a great app that works with it

 
 

WE ARE IN THE PROCESS OF MOVING TO [email protected] PLEASE SUB THERE

Helped your child learn a new manual skill? Set up something at work? Sorted a new make up technique? Whatever it is we wanna know!

 

I know they're all great! But whose your favourite?

 
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