JRaccoon

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago

Again, the risks you mention are certainly real. However, I believe they can be almost entirely mitigated by always having someone present who's ready to catch or assist the sub if they start to fall, or to release them immediately if needed. That's pretty standard stuff in BDSM. Clear communication and closely monitoring the sub are the key. Also, it's very unlikely that someone would suddenly collapse or lose consciousness just like that without any prior warning. I'm not saying it could never happen, but the risk is quite low.

If proper safety precautions aren't followed, then yes, there's a risk of serious injury when using devices like this. But that's also true for many other higher risk scenes. I just don't see OBPs as riskier than things like suspension bondage or CBT/ballbusting, for example. In my opinion, the risks involved are different, but not greater or lesser. We can agree to disagree on that.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago (4 children)

As someone living in a green country, could someone explain how things work in practice in the yellow or orange countries? I understand that in places like Russia or China, journalists can end up in prison, or worse, if the government doesn't like their writing. But how exactly is the press not free in countries like Canada or most European nations that are labeled yellow here?

And why is the US labeled orange? As far as I know, the media there is highly politically polarized, with most major news organizations openly supporting a particular agenda. That's certainly a serious issue and not how the press should operate, but even Trump's government isn't actively limiting the freedom of the press to report on issues like they see fit? Or am I mistaken? I'm genuinely asking.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I see your point but I still wouldn't call OBPs any more dangerous among kinky activities and the risks you mention can and should mitigated with standard BDSM safety measures. Also, it's not clear from this picture, but usually the top part which actually gets inserted into the sub is a dildo or something else with a fair bit of flex to it, of course it's not just solid metal pike.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Hmm, how come? I guess falling down with the dildo inserted could cause damage but as long as there's always someone close by to help if needed, I would consider OBPs pretty safe.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (6 children)

One bar prison

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

That's reassuring to know. What I don't understand is why you have the /api/v3/post/like/list route. You say you don't want votes to be snooped on, but then you add an endpoint that makes it very easy for instance admins to do exactly that if they choose to? Also worth pointing out that the tool linked here wouldn't work in its current form if this route didn't exist.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Compare your actions to releasing a 0-day exploit for a security vulnerability instead of responsibly disclosing. It doesn't help, it just causes chaos until the people who do the actual work can figure out a solution.

This comparison is not fair at all. It's not like the devs are unaware of this. They could start by removing the API endpoint that lists a post's votes, but they haven't, which means they seem to think it's okay for the instance admins to snoop on votes if they so wish.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

For me, this post seems to have the NSFW tag. In a recent update to Lemmy, the devs removed the NSFW checkbox from the interface when posting to a community that is marked as an NSFW community. I guess the idea is that posts to such communities should automatically be marked as NSFW, but this doesn't seem to always work correctly. The confusion is worsened by the fact that in many Lemmy apps (such as Voyager, which I use) the checkbox is still there even when posting to an NSFW community.

But AFAIK, even non-NSFW posts from NSFW communities have always been treated as NSFW by Lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Seems to be gradual rollout as usual. I don't see that option in the latest app version

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I'm just guessing but lemmynsfw.com uses some custom patches to change the behavior of how NSFW tagging works. Maybe the issue is related to that?

https://lemmynsfw.com/post/23232239
Seems their modifications have caused issues before.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Oh, I agree. This change will affect all CAs however. And their post seemed to contain the most amount of information.

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