HandsHurtLoL

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I am glad I left Texas when I did. The disgust I have for this entire ilk of people would have me choking on my bile 24 hours a day. My stomach is turning thinking that some people make a living or heaven forbid are prospering off augmenting the suffering of hundreds of thousands.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I appreciate that ringing endorsement, but I feel like it's a losing proposition. So perhaps this is the insight I can share: this maybe speaking only about this one instance (kbin.social), but users can technically submit content from outside the magazine, or from never even having visited the magazine for a first time, so I'm feeling hard-pressed to hold content submitters accountable to the magazine's rules or side bar.

And for federated users, I think it gets even more tricky because the sidebar may not fully load up (maybe they see the description but none of the rules or community expectations) if they federated prior to those being published; and not at all if they federated or created accounts after the pinned post was published.

I've stepped back significantly from policing submission rules because of this, but I'm beside myself with the quandary of how do you grow a community? > You create a place for healthy discourse by adding structure. > You create structure through moderation and community guidelines/rules. > Rules are de facto unenforceable because of federation. > How do you grow a community then?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I would be interested!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

Someone remind me if Ken Starr is alive or dead...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Hi @flta. Your submission is missing a label in the title.

Please refer to our community guidelines and submission rules here: https://kbin.social/m/politics/t/239165/If-you-cannot-access-the-sidebar-please-read-our-community

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Hi @lowdownfool. Your submission is missing a label in the title.

Please refer to our community guidelines and submission rules here: https://kbin.social/m/politics/t/239165/If-you-cannot-access-the-sidebar-please-read-our-community

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Hi @lowdownfool. Your submission is missing a label in the title.

Please refer to our community guidelines and submission rules here: https://kbin.social/m/politics/t/239165/If-you-cannot-access-the-sidebar-please-read-our-community

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Hi @Gargleblaster. Your submission is missing a label in the title. We also ask that users share a few paragraphs copy and pasted from the story in the body.

Please refer to our community guidelines and submission rules here: https://kbin.social/m/politics/t/239165/If-you-cannot-access-the-sidebar-please-read-our-community

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Hi @Jaysyn. Your submission is missing a label in the title.

Please refer to our community guidelines and submission rules here: https://kbin.social/m/politics/t/239165/If-you-cannot-access-the-sidebar-please-read-our-community

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Dude, someone reported your comment. It's as simple as that.

We are here to maintain community standards set by the community. Don't get it twisted.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 years ago

I echo what others have said about this sounding like a control issue, but I want to check in with you about some relationship dynamics before jumping too firmly to that conclusion. You phrased your partner's side as:

He’d like to know what I’m up to when not at work

Is he an introverted person who has a small social circle? Does he have a clingy attachment style in your relationship? Does he have this expectation for a check in when he isn't traveling? Have you talked with him about your own communication style and/or how your ADHD manifests as time blindness, as you put it?

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