- Working at my desk with the window open last Friday a wren came and sat on the window frame for a few moments, watching me.
- Went to see an Ayckbourn play that evening too and that was fun.
- Playing Gloom with my wife at the weekend.
I'm the older end of Gen X, and have never smoked. The major factor in starting is peer pressure and I didn't have any peers around me at the critical time who did. My family didn't either.
I seldom drink alcohol and then I have only ever enjoyed cider - not beer, wine or spirits. This is just a matter of the taste for me. I simply don't like it.
As a kid, I had had grape juice and I had heard adults enthusing about wine as usual and I had a idea what it must taste like.
If you imagine a taste/mouthfeel spectrum with wine at one end and grape juice in the middle, what I imagined wine to taste like was pretty much at the opposite end of that spectrum to what it actually tastes like. I had one mouthful and had no desire for any more at all. I have obviously tried wine and the rest at various times since, but my opinion is basically the same.
With cider, I'll seldom have more that a pint or two a month these days.
I don't think that I had anything like this from cartoons, but I had read about ginger beer in various childhood books long before I actually encountered it in the flesh and also Turkish delight from The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe, which was also one that I didn't encounter IRL until later.
Ginger beer turned out to be a bit of a disappointment - not a patch on elderflower pressé, for example - but Turkish delight lived up to that passage, and I have thought about the book pretty much every time I have tasted it over the decades since.
I am always a little surprised that people are so keen to 'read' the plays. People don't seem to have a similar desire to read film scripts.
To me, the obvious thing to do would be to watch a performance. There are plenty available online and, depending on where you live, stage performances are not too hard to find.
Reading it without seeing a performance lacks about 90% of the impact, I'd say. Reading it AFTER you see a perfomance is another matter: then you can pull out the language and take a deeper dive, but see a performance first.
The Pitt-Rivers Museum in Oxford would be my pick. Very much a traditional one, with little in the way of interactive stuff or anything like that and you definitely need to go in mindful of the whole colonial baggage that goes with collections of this type, but it is absolutely packed with the most glorious array of anthropological... well, everything really.
I am not familiar with either culture, but I'd guess that he does.
and asked me out on a date again
Was this specifically described as a date? If so, I'd suggest that this is the way in to politely raise this. In fact even if it was ambiguous, it still is the way to do it: "Just so that we are both clear, although I enjoyed meeting you the other night, I don't want to take things any further than these casual meetings." or similar. I'm assuming that you did enjoy it - or you wouldn't be considering another one.
You could restate that you will soon be moving (people can be incredibly selective about what they take in and what they don't) if you want to - although you shouldn't need to give a reason if you don't want to.
They will spread - but usually along the river catchment where they started. It would take a while for them to establish on other river systems.
However, due to the delays in legal releases, there are also quite a few illegal releases. That's not always ideal, but is probably the quickest way that they are spreading just at the moment.