Devi

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's not dating exactly, but there are dates involved. The parents pick someone that you're intended to marry, they bring them round and go "here, we think you should marry this person". You get chatting with them, go out for some dates, in the modern age you're probably texting each other etc, but it's not like western dating where you're just seeing how it goes, you're deciding if you want to marry.

After a short while you would say 'yup, this seems good'.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You don't commit to a stranger really. Normally you've met them and spoke multiple times and the families have spoken throughout both kids lives. I had a friend when I was young who knew her intended spouse from 7 years old and there was no plan to marry until she was finished with uni. She used to carry a picture of him in her wallet like we all had boyband members.

Even once you get to the marriage bit there's chances to say no then.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What numbers are we using here? Reddit has roughly 70m active users, the fediverse has between 2 and 3 million, that's quite a few people over here.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My dad never spent time with me because we didn't share hobbies, I tried desperately as a kid to get into what he liked, but he never tried to get into what I liked. My mom knew the names of the kids on Barney, what snacks cheered me up, or what friends I had in school, my dad also lived in the house.

As adults we've found common ground in politics and TV, and we have a relationship now, but we'd have a much better relationship if he'd tried to hang out with me back then.

So I guess my advice is just hang out with her, whatever form that takes. Time is so important.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You probably shouldn't have been banned but you are wrong. "Female while pregnant" is pretty offensive.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Kind of, but you don't get to choose what it pulls, so unless you have an excess of every mineral then it's going to make you deficient in something and then other things may not be affected at all.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

No, it pulls everything out of your system and causes deficiencies. It shouldn't be drunk at all.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Horse chestnuts, not chestnuts, chestnuts are soft and you eat them on bonfire night, horse chestnuts are hard and you can crack skulls with them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Yes, sticking stuff in it makes it work, you can even get mineralising powders that put the minerals back in so say you don't trust or like your tap water you can filter everything out and put the stuff you do like in

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Knowing what a conker is makes you super British.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (10 children)

It's worse than that, RODI water as it is just pure H2O it's desperate to bond to anything it can so it grabs minerals from your body as it passes through.

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