If you reduce it all down to ratios then yeah it’s probably silly. And I’m also privileged to not be renting, so there’s that too. But when you’re buying an existing house, you don’t really get to decide where the builders put the bathroom walls 30+ years ago. You just gotta decide if it’s good enough, and in our case, it was.
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Separate toilets is probably my limit. If my wife wanted more distance than that from me, I imagine she wouldn’t have married me. I’m sure there are relationships that value personal space over intimacy for whatever reason, so I’m not gonna knock it lol
I dunno what to tell you, the small counter space between the two basins is clutter free, I dunno what else we’d need to put on the bathroom counter. We’re talking like max 5 linear feet of vanity, basins included. Maybe you need more space than we do, that’s cool.
Believe it or not she wanted her own, I could t care less lol the last thing she wants is me muscling her out of the way to wash my hands while she’s late for work.
Teeth, makeup (removal), shaving, nails, and whatever else.
I guess it’s a preference. I get to have my few things arranged how I like, she hers. We wouldn’t have any use for the extra counter space either, to be honest.
I don’t really prefer one way or the other. We bought the house and it has a double sink, when I renovated it I put in an ikea one because that’s what was there. 🤷
In case this isn’t a shit post, it’s because it takes me 2 minutes to get ready for bed and it takes my wife 15 minutes, and it’s nice to not have to wait for the other to be finished at the sink.
If you scolded a sky diver for how much they spent on their harness or a scuba diver for how much their dive computer cost, they’d be pissed too.
I think you’re conflating gaming with spending addiction. Maybe he does have a problem, maybe he doesn’t. It’s still a hobby. There are many games that challenge the player mentally, and provide immense satisfaction when completed.
All you can do is apologize, but only if you mean it, because the vibes I’m getting from the comments are that you don’t want to understand and just want to not be in trouble. Sorry if that’s presumptuous!
Scuba and sky diving regularly is extremely expensive. Are those not hobbies? Sorry but you’re just squarely wrong here.
It’s pretty much been 15 mph winds down in south Florida since the new year, I’ve been miserable. Happy to see some fishing content on lemmy!
I can’t believe how bloodthirsty they are to attack the parade aspect instead of the utterly outrageous numerical aspect.
It’s called a natural disaster and we get along just fine. If the entire planet loses power, there’s nothing to be done, but even if an entire US state loses power, gas generators come online and trucks haul fuel in from long distances. It doesn’t take long for a grocery store or bank to open up with cash withdrawals again.
That’s exactly what promissory estoppel is for. It’s a civil tort however, not criminal, so the vibes are very different.