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I think this was asked by someone already, but I do wonder. I think it would be cool if my sister joined the Fediverse (but blocked NSFW content). She is a high school freshman, but I can’t have her join an instance where you must be an adult.

I do have friends on other social medias that are 13+ with their teen siblings making an account to follow them, but what are the rules here??

In my fictional country, my character banned Kiwi Farms, but someone said that it would mean she hated free speech.

She doesn’t want harassment to occur in her country: for her citizens to harass others or become victims/“lolcows”.

I know it’s my world, but I need some advice.

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It’s for my worldbuilding, [email protected]

Queen Becca, on June 10, 2025, bans the following sites:

• 8kun, for white supremacism, neo-Nazism, alt-right, racism, antisemitism, hate crimes, and mass shootings

• Truth Social & X for toxicity and overly right-wing content.

I’m asking here because I may get judged less. I’m not asking as a hateful person. In my story, my worldbuilding, there is a fictional Queen who is banning sites like Kiwi Farms.

[This post is for my fictional country of Beckyland.]

Yesterday, on June 9, 2025, Queen Becca has announced the end of Kiwi Farms in her country. The Queen has declared it a hateful site and does not want it to “set foot” anywhere in the country. She does not want her fellow citizens to use the site nor does she want them having any sort of access or even becoming “lolcows”.

My sister Lena’s boyfriend Dominic has French parents who he says don’t speak any English at all. Dominic could just translate for them, but if our parents our meeting his, is there a more convenient way or will he just have to translate all the time?

Like, what if his parents just want to communicate with ours without Dominic or Lena? Do they just use the voice to translated text?

My ex would always yell at me for pointless stuff and make me cry in front of his friends. They didn’t even like him, they just tolerated him.

My sister’s friend would blame my sister for stupid things and try to say it’s my sister’s fault, not hers. She would yell at her too and try to pass it off as a joke.

(We are very much healing now 🫂 Not perfect, but healing)

Again, this is not for armchair diagnosis. Just to analyze the behavior.

My sister Lena (14F) has just graduated the eighth grade. All throughout middle school, she had a friend named Ashlyn (14F).

Ashlyn presented a sort of “face” to Lena that attracted her: kind, a good listener, supportive, etc. Early on, Lena started to figure out that Ashlyn had red flags, but didn’t think much of them. For example, Ashlyn would ask “Lena, do you know that everyone hates you? I don’t know why but X student said Y about you! And it’s such a shame, you’re so kind!”

Ashlyn would also say stuff like that she was the “main character”, that she was the “queen bee”, etc. She would often call herself a fashion expert and she and her friends would make fun of Lena for her hair, clothes, etc.

Once, Ashlyn apparently said that she had NPD, and is reported by others to behave narcissistically.

A way I can describe Ashlyn is: cares a lot about status and appearance. She wants to be rich, popular, and pretty. She’s athletic, passionate, and energetic. Very influential of her peers and goes after what she wants without much care of others or how it affects them.

Ashlyn really likes sports, but she found out one day that Lena does not. Ashlyn got mad at Lena for being bad at sports despite not playing, tried to hurt(?) Lena multiple times by throwing the ball at her face/head, etc. She also expects Lena to catch a ball that she throws way over her head, behind her or in a completely different direction (Ex: If Ashlyn throws to a girl who is standing across the room from Lena and way to the right, she expects Lena to catch it, not the other girl).

Ashlyn has talked behind her back and started fights with Lena multiple times, threatening to kick her out of the friend group permanently and never speak to her again. Often, the reasons will be for petty stuff such as: not liking her disorder, not liking her tics, not liking her stutter, saying hi to her, or confusing one word for another (ex: saying “instigating” instead of “antagonizing”).

Ashlyn has admitted that she isn’t a good person and that she pretends to be nice to everyone so she doesn’t make enemies and ruin her reputation at school. She even sends videos in the group chat saying she hates certain people, or saying “me with most of you!! 😂”. She also just smiled and nodded whenever Lena said something and said it’s because she doesn’t care about Lena or what she has to say.

After “throwing Lena away”, so to speak, she then acts really nice and really wants Lena to talk to her again. Lena has gotten used to this by now, I’m sure. Lena has told Ashlyn many times about how she feels, but Ashlyn cares more about her image, truly, than about how she affects others. Ashlyn does not want to seek help because she thinks seeking professional help is too expensive, doesn’t care enough to do any introspection or see how she affects people, and would rather talk to her friends.

It seems Ashlyn truly doesn’t see there’s a problem.

Ashlyn acts like an expert on advice often and wants personal information from Lena, but does not give any information about herself to Lena, only about her achievements.

Ashlyn’s half-black (mixed), so she also thinks she has an excuse to call people multiple slurs. She was born in America, though, unlike Lena, who was born in Chile, so she found that to tease her for too.

This behavior is certainly abusive. Lena has graduated and will not see Ashlyn again or for a while, and I was wondering what your thoughts were or if NPD people can act like this.

Or narcissistic behavior like some people have said?

From my friend Jaiden that I posted about, just curious.