Same. I worked as a project coordinator for a few months for a sign company (temp job). It was supposed to turn into a real job but then they asked how I felt about project management and I was like… umm… so literally all the stuff I do now because the PMs here don’t do shit, but nobody to handle it for me when it fails? Meh. I’d rather stay as a coordinator without all the people management.
Needless to say they ran out my contract and reneged the offer. I’m not upset, tho it hurt at the time.
I feel like this is largely because if you can identify one trans woman, and are right, you think everyone who looks that way is also one. (Because sorry transmasc, you don’t exist to society as anything more than feminine gay man)
Which is why cis women, especially butch women, are frequently accused of being trans.. we don’t meet the stereotype of femininity, and thus must be men, rather than just.. women who aren’t hyperfeminine..