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I just got up from conversation with a couple of older black men, that I said "well I got to go back to work and start cracking the whip." And it occurred to me then that it was probably a really insensitive stupid thing to say.

Sadly, it hadn't occurred to me until it's already said.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The closest thing you'll get to a list is the lists of slurs on Wikipedia because it's an everchanging list with different degrees and specific requirements for each phrase, for example Europe still considers it not rude to say the R word. It would be impossible to make a full list.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Europe probably doesn't consider it rude to say the R word because they mostly speak another language than English?

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Wrong, that'd definitely get a few looks. Although nobody's honed being offended to such an art form as the British and American.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I tried to look but the most official one (from University of Washington) is kind of ridiculous. Following for better ideas.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

One that a lot of people don't know about is 'jip/gyp', meaning to swindle or cheat. It's (most likely) derived from 'Gypsy' in reference to stereotypes about them being untrustworthy cheats.

Funnily enough, Gypsy itself actually derives from a mistaken medieval belief that the Gypsies, generally better called the Romani, originally come from Egypt. They're actually originally from India.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Considering this is a term related to animals, it is not particularly offensive. Or at least not the way you think it might be. While there are some phrases that are obviously offensive, pretty much any phrase, regardless how innocent, there will be someone who could construed it as offensive. I doubt this fellow considered it anything but that of work animals.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

For years I used the term "shylock" as a pejorative for greedy people while being ignorant of the connotations of using the characters name that way. I didn't even know it was from a Shakespeare play.

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