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...I'm here and registered in Blahaj instance but I'm not even remotely close to being queer? I'm a white straight guy getting married to a woman next week (can I get some honey for that) but I'm in full support of decent human beings. My fiance was asking why I signed up with the gay server, and it's because you guys are just nice and relaxed community. Also, our celebrant is a lesbian, but most importantly, my best friend and that's what matters, right?

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

you don't have to be gay to spoon a blahaj. love is love

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Haha will have to invest in one

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

its only a matter on time till you become one of us...…

. in all seriousness, every one is welcome here. that's why there are so many queer people here we seek out welcoming atmospheres because we aren't welcome everywhere

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Hahah my fiance always worries that I'm gay because I'm pretty flamboyant. Not to worry, I'm not gonna steal any boys from the community 🤣

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

that might be why you like to hang around gay people; if you presentation is "gay-ish," it's a type of fitting-in to be with people who commonly act like you, or at least don't raise an eyebrow at it. i'm glad you found a comfortable crowd to run in

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I just came here because /r/196 had funny memes.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Thats how I landed there too. Also I really enjoyed watching the back and fro jabs with r/shitposting

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 years ago

idk man a lot of people enjoy the company of demographics they aren't. i feel more at ease with people older than me, and a lot of women prefer the company of men and vice versa. i think you for sure have a place with the lgbt crowd and you don't have to pick apart why that is to justify it

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's technically allowed yes

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 years ago

Love that - I'm technically allowed 🤤

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

I'm a nonbinary person, but I'm here because the community on Reddit was cool and the memes were even better.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

So at least on the subreddit, it was not a "trans community", but a "Trans positive community, with a lot of Trans people", so if that continues, which I would hope would, ur good lol

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Grats on the marriage you gay little straighty ;)

196 isn't just for gay people it's just the most welcoming space therefore queers of all "qinds" flock here. However I did realise I was bi years ago after browsing 196 for the first time so...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago

Hahaha I first joined 196 about 2 years (on Reddit) ago so I think I'm in the clear. Never say never tho 😄

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Im not trans myself, but i registered here because this place seems like it has little patience for conservative assholes jaqing off

Also congrats on getting married thats awesome

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Thanks 😉🎉

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Stay, you’re totally welcome ^-^