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The original was posted on /r/nostupidquestions by /u/PlaneLegDawg on 2023-09-19 20:41:54.
Or is it just a different kind of trouble than I'm used to.
It blows my mind whenever I read something where a woman says she's having trouble dating. Just the other day I saw a video where a woman said she'd pay 5k to whoever introduces her to her future husband. Payable upon marriage.
She wasn't bad looking, she was a white collar professional. I just do not understand how she has any problems at all.
Is it just that she was extremely picky with her partner? That sounds like a straight up luxury to me.
If you watch any sort of social media, you'll often run across posts where it makes out dudes to be so touch and affection deprived that they'd take any girl with a pulse to be their partner. And while that's a slight exaggeration, the underlying sentiment is pretty damn true.
A lot of guys are extremely deprived of affection and intimacy and just don't know what to do. It's posted over and over on Reddit and other places online to not bother women in everyday life, they don't want to be hit on for the 20th time today. So that really just leaves dating apps, which is trash and a hellscape for most dudes.
I don't get it man. It seems like dating is ez pz for women as long as they are average or better looking. Is it just that the "problems" are that they can't find their picky choice?