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The original was posted on /r/nostupidquestions by /u/Moist-Improvement724 on 2023-09-14 16:21:27.
It's literally IMPOSSIBLE to overstate how prevalent the BBC expectation is. The amount of times you'll to flirt with someone and they start throwing SIZE innuendos at you.
I'm not sure how to handle it. So far I've just gotten discouraged and ended my persuit. At what point in dating someone should I let them know I'm actually below average in length and girth? And how? I know oral and manual sex are things some women enjoy, but it seems like when you're black, you EXPECTED to live up to the BBC standard.
And I don't know, maybe most black men are large, and I'm just an oddity.