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[–] [email protected] 92 points 6 months ago (4 children)

That's because in their mind, 75 is bigger than 105.

[–] [email protected] 80 points 6 months ago (1 children)

The quarter pounder has more meat than the third pounder because 4>3.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

„Ein Drittel? Nee, ich will mindestens ein Viertel.“

("A third? No, I want at least a quarter")

– allegedly Horst "Schimmi" Szymaniak (German footballer in 1950s - 60s)

[–] [email protected] 62 points 6 months ago (2 children)

It's a universal rule that anyone who references their supposed IQ like this is at most half as smart as they think they are

[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 months ago (1 children)

i have an IQ-equivalent of like 120
guess what
i have no job, because i have autism

[–] inv3r5ion 15 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Over the summer while waiting for my mother at one of her apts I decided to take an iq test out of curiosity, one of those free online ones that seemed legit but who knows.

I got 144 or something? I think 145 was the cut off for genius? I remember being a point below the cut off.

Anyway. The point isn’t to brag, but to say that like you, i am almost certainly autistic (but mid 30s female who wasn’t a disruptive child so I can’t be!) and I’ve only held down minimum wage or close to it jobs my whole life. Despite having an education and being “smart” my personality pisses people off. Especially in “real” jobs.

I’m also constantly called a know it all derisively but I’m sorry when I was a kid I was left alone and none of the other kids played with me so I read encyclopedias (and later Wikipedia) for fun.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

it's not our fault everyone else seems to actively enjoy being uninformed
this is why neurodivergent communities are so much nicer, you can post infodumps like these and people just.. respond with their take on it..

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Unfortunately I'm smart enough to know mentioning my IQ at the very least makes me come off as a pretentious prick. But I would REALLY love to just win arguments by simply having a higher IQ than sb else.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

Nobody ever wins arguments, thats why ive mostly stopped having them. Sometimes, with a lot of long and patient DISCUSSIONS you can maybe bring someone around to seeing your point of view, but in an argument all sides just end up thinking the other is an asshole.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 6 months ago

They are in the 15th percentile. So they think they are in the top 15%

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 months ago

As someone with a below-average IQ of 123, i can say that IQ doesnt measure how critical you are of your own beliefs

[–] [email protected] 82 points 6 months ago (2 children)

There is some bliss in having a universal personal pronoun w/o grammatical genders whatsoever (ő) in a languange (hungarian). Often you can even omit it altogether from a sentence.

But let's not mention the many cases...

[–] [email protected] 19 points 6 months ago

Yes, luckily they werent successful adding gendered words to the hungarian language in the 19. century.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Alright Uralic language family, you can stop bragging now.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

I'm so sick of all these people with their clearly superior languages showing how stupid my one is

[–] [email protected] 62 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Steve Hofstetter. He’s known for owning trolls like this. And hecklers.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago (1 children)

And does it so effortlessly too 😂

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago

👈😎 Thanks! I can see you're a very big fan.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 6 months ago (2 children)

You’re they/them until you couple up, in which case you and your partner split the pronouns between them?

[–] [email protected] 52 points 6 months ago

I lost my pronouns in the divorce 😔

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago

I would like to subscribe to this level of rational social design

[–] [email protected] 23 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (3 children)

As someone speaking a native language in which I need to rephrase myself multiple times and need to work with multiple / and * before a sentence is both grammatically correct and perfectly gendered - I still take my time because inclusion is worth it - I just don't get why anybody could ever be upset about English gender inclusive language.

An example:

Every cyclist should wear their helmet to protect their head from injury.

Jede/r Radfahrer*In sollte seinen/ihren Helm tragen, um seinen/ihren Kopf vor Verletzungen zu schützen.

We usually tend to rephrase these sentences like this:

Alle Radfahrenden sollten Helme tragen, um das Risiko für Kopfverletzungen zu minimieren.

All cyclists should wear helmets to minimise the risk of head injuries.

[–] [email protected] 47 points 6 months ago (9 children)

Fun fact about how stupid this outrage is: singular "they" has existed longer than singular "you" in the English language. If you refuse to use singular "they" but aren't using "thou," then you're a hypocrite.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (5 children)

I don't know where you got this from or if you just invented it, but I have never heard/seen anyone mix * and /.

People interested in gender neutral language used / before the idea of more than two genders came up. Whoever wanted to specifically include non-binary people started using _ or *.

Also it makes little sense imo to include nb's in the subject of a sentence to go back to binary scheme in the pronouns..

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Alle Radfahrys sollten Helme tragen, um ihren Kopf [...]. :3

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

*Die Stadt sollte designierte Fahrradstraßen haben, damit Fahrradfahren auch ohne Helm hinreichend sicher ist.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago

Ich muss leider auf dem Land fahren wo sie einen in uneinsehbaren Kurven (oder mit 100km/h) mit 30cm Seitenabstand überholen.

Ein Grund wieso ich fast nur noch auf Wald-, Feld- und Güterwegen fahre.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 6 months ago

Idk what their problem is /s

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

They/them is grammatically correct for singular nouns, but maybe it’s best to just use neopronouns in the case of someone (like this lady who is opposed to using someone’s correct pronouns) being difficult. But I feel people who want to be difficult are going to be difficult for whatever reason, and it’s not about the pronouns or grammar at that point.

For reference https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they

Edit why is my comment being read uncharitably by the downvoters? Its weird behavior, I don’t get why someone would do that lol

[–] inv3r5ion 10 points 6 months ago (4 children)

I think neopronouns would piss off those against the concept of non-binary or trans even more.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 6 months ago (5 children)

I like the idea of inventing new pronouns, but most of the suggestions so far (like "Xe") are too silly to be taken seriously. "They/them" can come off as impersonal at times, but we seem to be more or less settling on that, so whatever.

[–] inv3r5ion 4 points 6 months ago

I’m in the too silly to be taken seriously boat. They/them works perfectly fine.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

edit: below comment is in response to a previous version of the above comment before they clarified it was about the lady :)

maybe it’s best to just use neopronouns in the case of someone ~~being difficult~~ asking

ftfy :)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I think that lady isn’t asking though? She seems argumentative to me

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago (4 children)

oh you mean use neopronouns instead of they/them specifically in order to appease jeanette in the post?

sorry, i thought you meant using neopronouns in general. you might want to consider editing your comment for fuzzy language if that’s not the case. :)

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[–] Leate_Wonceslace 9 points 6 months ago

This is like the 5th funniest thing I've read all day. (It's been a very good day.)

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