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The original was posted on /r/nostupidquestions by /u/Connect-Part-4670 on 2023-09-04 13:55:49.
I (26M), I find it challenging to be around my parents, and even engaging in conversations with them can negatively impact my mood. While I won't delve into the intricate details of my upbringing, it's worth noting that my parents were not necessarily abusive during my childhood. They have even made significant sacrifices to ensure that grew up in a good neighbourhood and went to a good school. They were, however, deeply religious and adhered to strict rules in our household, which some might consider excessive. Interestingly, my sister maintains a close relationship with them, but I, for reasons I can't fully understand or explain, struggle to connect with them or enjoy their company.
I do maintain contact with them and occasionally visit, primarily out of a sense of familial obligation rather than a genuine desire to do so. Most of the time, I prefer to keep to myself and avoid asking them for anything. I'm torn between wondering if my feelings are valid or if I'm simply being an adult spoiled brat.