Autism

The only problem with self-diagnosis would be if we give autistics an easier time. If a diagnosis or label of autism leads to less responsibility, that's a problem because it will attract those people who don't want to take responsibility, which is most of us at least at one time or another.

On the other hand, there are things autistic people can really use to help them out. Just like neurotypicals need things autistics don't need, autistics need things neurotypicals don't need.

So it's about correctly identifying what you need in life.

The key dividing line between the important categories is: things an autistic truly needs and truly benefits from, and things that are nice to have but which autistics don't actually need, or actually benefit from.

Clear articulation and someone willing to answer questions without knowing how the question connects to the context, I think is helpful for an autistic person.

An easier ladder to climb, less responsibility, and treatment as if they're a child might be attractive in some cases, but it's not something autistics really benefit from or need.

So if we properly respond to a label of autism with only the things that actually help, there will be no incentive to convince oneself of being autistic.

Sort of like how insulin isn't really that helpful for non-diabetics. And we don't give diabetic people special social status. We give them insulin. Because our set of appropriations to a diabetic person is well-organized and contains only the things that truly help with the things unique to diabetes, and not more than that, we don't really have to worry about people self-diagnosing as diabetic.

Now, the thing is, something like "attention" or "acceptance into the group" is something that we tend to give people who have a label like autistic, these days. Does that mean we should take these things away from autistics, other neuro-atypicals, etc? No. It means that those things are useful to everybody, so we should give them to everybody. Even the really normal people who aren't in any marginal group.

The problem is that we have a mismatch between what is needed and helpful, and what we provide to people. That creates an incentive to report or perceive things differently than reality.