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[–] [email protected] 26 points 2 years ago (7 children)

When I lost my virginity, the first and most powerful epiphany from that experience, right after the afterglow wore off, was the following:

"All right, now what?"

It feels like a big deal until you have sex. Then it's just a lot of pent up expectations and frustration left behind and you just continue with what you were already doing.

Don't let anyone bully you into feeling "pathetic" or whatever because of their own preoccupation with a score card.

Look at "RooshV." He's BAAANGED (in most cases, coercively or violently) scores of women and he's a pathetic loser that no one, not even nazis, wants to hang out with.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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