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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

But why adapt to it in such a way? Isn't it fucking rude to force someone to lie about their emotional state while remaining ignorant about how they are truely doing? I started to try and find short tacky answers also for the less favourable states, at leaast with people i meet regularly: "... somewhat difficult day", "Oh, I'm exhausted" ... "but I see/hope that you are doing well? / but you look tired, too?" -- That might be a surprisingly easy attempt to a little non-smalltalk conversation, if they have the time.