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i've seen so many iterations of this on tiktok. people saying "this tweet motivates me to get out of bed"

how?

"omg you people cant do anything"

i mean... yeah? that's kinda how executive dysfunction rolls?

is the tweet supposed to be insulting? and that motivates people to do shit out of spite? if that's so, i wish my adhd was so weak i was able to prove her wrong out of spite

is it something else? please explain, thank you

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

is the tweet supposed to be insulting? and that motivates people to do shit out of spite? if that's so, i wish my adhd was so weak i was able to prove her wrong out of spite

I can't really read it any other way, and looking at the comments under an Instagram repost of this, yeah, it seems like that sort of "bootstraps mentality" is more or less the intended meaning as it's taken by the people who share this picture. It's just gross, I can't stand that people like stuff like this.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I am mostly disgusted by someone having a printed out tweet hung on their wall. Like that is some real bateman-business-card shit

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

there are dril tweets i would consider

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Dril tweet cross-stitch to go with my framed 9/11 fireball poster

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Yeah, and it's not even paper!

[–] fakeplastic 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

What's gross about one person finding motivation this way? Sometimes a kick in the ass gets me going, sometimes it doesn't. We're diverse people and find motivation in different ways. And the same person has a diversity of behaviors at different times.

I'm sure some of the commenters were assholes, but it's valuable to some people to be reminded that we can get so used to our feelings that we fall into the pattern of assuming they're insurmountable when that's not always true. It's not a failing if someone can't find motivation with a change of thinking, but it's wrong to deny that it can sometimes happen. The problem is thinking this is a magic fix for everyone.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I'm sure some of the commenters were assholes

most of them, including the original rt

i see your point (i don't relate at all, but i see it). it's just that, to me, it's just repeating something i know already, heavily implying i'm just faking it