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Methinks someone doesn't know what "mansplaining" is.
Here, let me break down why that's a mansplain:
That's the mansplain. Someone who doesn't know shit corrected a woman who literally knows for certain without at any point considering that, perhaps, the woman is right.
Because when are women ever right?
Now fuck off the channel.
(Yo so I know I'm not supposed to be commenting but can I just ask a quick question? Won't make a habit of it but this kinda blew my mind.)
Wait, so does mansplaining require the man to be incorrect? I (for about a year) dated a woman who used to accuse me of mansplaining every time I would be excitedly ADHDsplaining a niche interest, and now I'm kiiinda super self-conscious about talking about...well anything, unless I know the other person has a decent idea of the subject already.
So...was she using it right, or wrong and she's just a jerk who wanted to hurt me?
I'd believe it, she did threaten to shoot me (like, not for a good reason that would be legal, for spending my own money on comics that I could afford), so it wouldn't be too out of character. But as a result I may have misunderstood this term for oohhh about 7yr now... Like I said I know I'm not supposed to comment and I'm sorry but can you elaborate on the meaning/appropriate application?
I would put it like this: Before you are going to explain something in Detail that you are curious about ASK the other Person if by Chance she knows about it already. If so, let her explain it to you or have a fruitful discussion on it together (with that i mean , take care both of you speak in equal parts), but do not start to explain the basics again. Its Boring and offending if she already knows and on top embarrassing if you Make mistakes. At least the last is called mansplaining. In General and especially in a date, the "take care both of you speak an equal amount of time" is a good advice. ;) although, i know its sometimes hard for adhd people, when you get carried away with a topic and i know its not done in purpose. If you follow this, i dont think you should be shy about your topics in conversations and dating Situations.