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People at work are finally starting to talk to me a bit. At first everyone kinda ignored me. Also (and don't ruin this for me) women complaining to me about men being creepy/pushy always feels nice, idk it feels kinda dumb now that I'm typing it out but that kind of thing has always felt like girl talk to me. Obviously sucks that men be that way,
Nah it's legit, being excluded from being considered a man is nice, and often shortly comes before inclusion and being considered a woman.
Okay cool, I thought so but was a bit worried I was making a fuss about nothing. That'd be nice, if a bit optimistic ๐ข
Early in this year I was talking to a friend who is a trans woman (and knew I was non binary then) and the topic of Neil Gaiman came up, she made a comment like "why are men like that?" and it was clear I was intentionally excluded from being considered a man. And it felt really good and was probably one of number of factors that made it finally click that I was a woman.
Sorry was just feeling negative about actually being seen as a woman when I socially transition/actually doing that at this job. I don't feel like I'll be in a good place to be public about it for a while :/
No need to be sorry. I get it. I had to socially transition almost immediately being an extremely minor public figure, instead of the timeline I might have wanted. And it's been a lot of highs and lows.
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