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There are a few controversial subjects I’ve changed my mind about recently, and it only happened because someone actually took the time to engage with me instead of just hurling insults and trying to shut down the discussion. I’m not even going to specify what I changed my mind about, because I know I’d just get attacked again - for views I don’t even hold anymore.
I was wrong about capital punishment up into my twenties. It took someone sitting me down and explaining it's more expensive to kill people than just jail them for life (along with why). These days I'm a bit ashamed that that was the argument that convinced me but that was among a few key watershed moments that pulled back the veil and got me thinking and noticing that fiscal conservatives somehow didn't ever seem to pick the most sensible option to achieve their goals—clearly their goals aren't what they claim. They want to reduce abortion, but not in ways that actually work. They want to reduce crime, but not in ways that actually work. Fuck, they want to balance budgets, but not in ways that actually work.
We're all on a journey, friend. And sometimes that's especially hard online because the strides we take are often attacked for being insufficient. People demand total, instant realignment, and you're still attacked for not believing it all along. I'm glad most of my journey was not made on social media because I've certainly held some regrettable positions.
Good luck!
My argument against capital punishment is that no legal system is foolproof and some number of innocent people are going to get locked up no matter what. That is aready unacceptable in itself but the idea of sentencing someone to death who hasn't done anything wrong is the greatest injustice I can think of.
There's even a saying about it. "I would rather a thousand guilty men go free than one innocent man be murdered".