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Screaming into the void (CW: Suicide) (hexbear.net)

submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I just cant do it anymore. I couldnt handle being trans and the processes involved in transitioning before when it was tolerated and now that it puts a huge target on me its impossible. I know people will chime in about “living in defiance” of all these people but Im just not that confrontational a person. I used to have dreams of being a writer/director but my creativity/talent is at least 90% gone. Im just a 33 soon to be 34 year old Uber driver who lives at home with no real career prospects and I just dont have much to live for. Yeah my family will be sad but they have full lives outside of me. In 2019 I wrote out a list of things I want to do before suicide because I had a pretty good idea what was coming and it helped me feel way more focused and at peace. I threw it away after I thought estranging myself from my family would make me want to live. My best friend killed himself Jan 15 2020 and im so jealous of his timing. I wish I could make a new list with a target suicide date of 2026-27 but nothing even excites me enough anymore to add to it. Ive attempted once so I cant really get a firearm so when the time comes Ill probably have to hang myself somewhere. Im worried I wont pick a good spot like whatever i attach the rope to might break or I might get discovered. I suppose I could try car in the garage when my parents are on vacation but I drive a Prius and I worry it would take too long.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Hey there, I just wanted to share a resource with you that I found a while back called Wildflower Alliance. They are a super radical mental health/peer support organization that's anticarceral and they believe in being able to talk openly about SI without worrying about it becoming an intervention episode. They have online meetings and a discord as well with a channel specific to being able to talk about this stuff freely, if you ever just want to vent to people who get it. They have warmlines you can call but the discord is just for anyone

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Sorry I know you aren't asking for help, I experience SI myself and I fucking wish I had people who I could talk to who wouldn't get freaked out. I'm sorry this world makes it so fucking difficult to want to live cuddle

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago

I appreciate the resource. I just wish there were enough drugs to make me forget being trans. Im still the scared teenager who would freak out trying to google transgender in the late 00s and now the trauma I repress is all around me. Im one of the few people it would be ethical to have reparative therapy for. Id probably still be suicidal as a cis person because im suicidal for a lot of reasons.

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