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Friend constantly yells at everyone in Gym class (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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My friend Ana (15F) is generally a nice person, but she can be a little weird with some things, specifically Gym. Ana does not like taking accountability for her own mistakes, nor does she seem to believe/accept that she can be wrong sometimes.

Ana constantly blames others (like me) for things like her serving the volleyball behind herself instead of over the net, for example.

When I pass to someone and they end up missing in basketball, she blames me for passing to them and not her.

If I end up winning a point, she sarcastically slow claps and says “Wow. You finally did something useful for once.”

She gets mad at me for setting or spiking a volleyball that’s too high for me to bump as well, saying she’s better than everyone, that everyone is useless, and that I was actually supposed to bump it down low.

She makes sure to remind people how terrible they are and how she’s better than them, too. Ana has anger issues (she says it’s because of her parents) and while she acts like nothing happened/apologizes in the next period, she does the same things again and again since around 12 years old. I like Ana as a friend but I hate when she yells at me and others for everything.

I worry about dying young. (lemmy.ml)

submitted 11 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I'm 24 and about to be 25 I'm constantly feeling like having a panic attack even fast heart beats. I know death can come at any moment and it's just that fact alone that someone can just kill you. It's the fact I don't go anywhere that kept me alive. I hope to be alive from an older age but I haven't done anything useful which I'm sad about death. I'm sad I smoke as well I'm sad that this means I've mostly killed myself. You know what actually does happen? If death is just like sleep that might be peaceful but there's not really another chance at living. If it's something then it's like I might see people I don't like I miss people in some way but not being able to see them again because they committed suicide or some other stuff. I don't get it anymore actually and just kind of wait which I hate.