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The original was posted on /r/nostupidquestions by /u/Queasy_Routine_2164 on 2023-09-16 10:41:30.
So yesterday I accidently sent something on messenger to a girl who I've known for like 9-10 years. Never really been attracted to her and always just seen her as a friend. I never really spoke too much to her, but a lot of my friends are good friends with her. After I sent that message by mistake we got to talking a bit and then it was the end of it. However later that evening I got really drunk with my friends and I met her in the clubs and we talked a bit again, and late at night while being really drunk we texted for like 1 hour about our exes and stuff. Apparently she just got out of a relationship and so did I. The thing is now we're gonna be hanging out on sunday, which is kind of a date.
I do find her attractive nowadays, but I feel like it's so weird because I've known her for so long, and I told my friend and he said it was really weird that I was going to do this. Is this actually really weird and how do I tell her that I don't wanna do it afterall?