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The original was posted on /r/nostupidquestions by /u/Jordanrevis11 on 2023-09-08 09:10:32.


We've (32m & 31f) been married for more than 2 years but from past couple of months she is acting very weird. She almost gets upset for almost no reason and creating a lot of arguments in our relationship. Sometimes she imagins things and get upset about it. That's what is worrying me!

For example - she gave an interview yesterday and she could not answer all the questions, so first she got upset because it didn't go well. Then she got sad because she thinks she doesn't know anything, then she got upset because she felt the interviewers was mocking her by smiling all the time, then she got upset because the interviewers will laugh thinking about her and she thinks she might meet them somewhere outside the office and it would be embarrassing for her and then she thinks she will never get a job.

This is just an example of one thing but keeps happening again and again when we go out to meet friends and family. She will complain about them for hours or sometimes even days. She is thinking about somethings with doesn't even happen for real. Anyone going through or gone through this stage please help me. I don't know how to react to this situations. What can be done now?


Edit - she is clearly not pregnant nor on birth control/supplements, and she already has a job which she is very good at. But she's looking to change because of salary hike.

I really appreciate each one of you for answering to this post. It really means a lot to me because I cannot tell this my friends or family member.

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