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The original was posted on /r/nostupidquestions by /u/Aggravating_Mess_735 on 2023-09-05 14:35:11.
What the title says. What do you say exactly ?
Personally I'm almost completely closeted, and I'm really sensitive about sharing about my orientation with people. But recently I had a couple of experiences where I had to let a guy know I was not interested and I didn't know what to say. On one side I don't want to hurt them unecessarily, on the other hand I don't think it's right for me to come out if I don't want to, right? What do you say in these situations?