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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

I like the short and aesthetic of the domain name lemm.ee

Shorter domains the better I say! (usually)

[–] youthinkyouknowme 4 points 2 years ago

Its status on federation with problematic instances.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

When I got started on Lemmy, there were only a handful of instances and they were all general-purpose. I went and made my own so that it was exactly what I wanted.

These days, I'd probably use a list like this and choose an instance that isn't too big with a cool domain name: https://github.com/maltfield/awesome-lemmy-instances

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Surprised I'm not seeing any other self-hosters in here. Having seen the de-federation drama, it's nice to know that I can federate with anyone I want, regardless of if they are federating with eachother.

Obviously it comes with the administration side of things, but I really don't mind.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I wanted an instance specifically for Australians... so I made one πŸ˜€

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

I chose Lemmy.world, because it was the one I was hearing the most about. It's a bit slow at the moment, but that's not surprising, given the amount of new users. So far it's been fun. I really hope more and more people show up!

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago

It doesn't really matter actually, but I would prefer to stay on the one with more members as it will probably last longer than other instances

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'd heard you shouldn't pick one of the largest, I explicitly didn't want a server run by Nazis, Paleolibertarians, or Marxist-Leninists, and I didn't mind the rules here.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'm learning german so while i was looking for some german speaking communities. They're surprisingly big and keep growing.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I've got accounts on 4 different instances just to see what things are like. Sometimes I want to see all sorts of posts, sometimes I want a feed of just LGBT-positive stuff, sometimes I just want to get off, different accounts on different instances for different things :)

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I joined the one hosted by my country's community. The community is really great.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I was looking for a lemmy instance that would let me create communities, downvote if I wanted to downvote, and that would take care of troublemakers without being too overly restrictive.

I also wanted to ease the burden on the very busy lemmy instances that were being overwhelmed by the reddit Exodus.

It seems I have found a place. The SDF has a very long history of serving several communities in the internet and Linux world. I first ran into them decades ago, and they are still here.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

The one I use doesn't block other instances, although I probably will block the same instances and people that big instances already block, I want to be the one to make that choice and shape the content I see.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Well, I started my instance so it only makes sense that its also my home!

As for why I started an instance, I've always liked self-hosting stuff as its been one of the best ways I learn how stuff on the internet works, even more than I have learnt from doing some programming in my spare time. So it was an obvious move for me since I wanted to know more about how ActivityPub worked.

Originally I wasn't really planning on having open registration on my instance (otherwise I would've picked a better domain name, a bit late for that now) however as I saw Lemmy pick up pace, and the larger servers were starting to have issues, I figured that the best way I could give back was at least offer to share the load.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I'm with the boys on lemm.ee !

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Because I'm a furry. obligatory OwO

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Signed up this account on .world because it was quite small (lol) but seemed competently run. This decision has not worked out great!

Had my other account on Beehaw so after that whole debacle I had to migrate. Moved that one to lemm.ee because again small and competently run. It's worked out much better over there, people seem to keep flocking to .world for whatever reason so lemm.ee is staying nice and manageable (for now).

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I chose vlemmy.net cause it seemed neutral, general, and was one of the recommended ones. So far so good.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Google search. I had no clue about multiple instances. Search lemmy on Google and first link was for lemmy.ml domain so that's how I am here.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Bouncing between several since lemmy.world is being hammered right now, I'm sure once the dust settles things will calm down. Right now I'm on infosec.pub because it was recommended to me as a smaller server. It really doesn't matter so long as whatever you're on communicates with everyone else.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Tried lemmy.world as a reddit refugee but with the performance issues they're experiencing, quickly went looking for another instance with better performance and a decent amount of extra content. Lemmy.ml is blocked at work (.ml TLD is freenom so prone to abuse) and registration is closed anyway, so decided on lemm.ee.

Far better speed, a good amount of content locally, and few/no errors at the moment.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

β€’Lemmy.ml - Signed up here first, was recommended to it as a general place to sign up to

β€’Lemmy.blahaj.zone - Egg memes, blΓ₯haj memes, just memes

β€’Lemmy.world - Handy for extra world news communities

β€’Lemmynsfw.com - Do I need to explain. This is under a different name, but I've kinda used that name over on the other place and I'm slowly bringing my content over (plus new stuff)

I only use one and four regularly

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I picked pawb because furries know tech really well, so I can trust the server to be fairly reliable.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I chose Aussie.zone cause I'm out of touch with my own country so seeing the news here is nice and cause I thought it would be easier to join a country instance.

Also optional email and I know I could make a temp email but I can't be bothered.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

The list of blocked instances made me switch from feddit.de to the current instance I'm using.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

It doesn't but I thought it did

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

It has the word world in the name, sounds bigger.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I joined lemmy.ca because I like to keep a diet of local news and a place to avoid American influence. I like using my local feed for well the local stuff and then my subscriptions for all the niche interests that the Canadian community couldn't sustain alone.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Like most commenters here, because it was recommended and I'm a newbie at this.

Question though, if I create another account on say lemm.ee, is there a way for me to migrate my subscribed communities?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Sadly not, it's gonna be manual for the time being so if you're thinking about it it's probably worth doing before you have hundreds of subscriptions.

That said, I've gone through it once already on my other account and in the desktop browser it was fine, just involved opening lots of tabs and a bit of copy paste, took about ten minutes for a fairly extensive sub list. But I pity anyone trying to do it on mobile.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I joined Lemmy a few weeks ago when a lot of other reddit refugees were making the switch. A lot of the servers were overloaded, so I just went ahead and hosted my own. My instance is never overloaded because I'm the only user, and because Lemmy is federated I can subscribe to communities on any instance I want.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Decided to go with a smaller instance from the start, as I think we can all see what happens when one entity holds too much power within an ecosystem.

Also wanted to go with one that was not defederated from other instances (nor defederating others as well). Checked a bunch of lists, and decided to go with my current one.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

I read some comments that lemmy.ca was well run to the extent that it was being recommended even by non-Canadians. Being Canadian myself, that was good enough for me.

It's a friendly instance and is well-run. The admin manually approved registrations which kept them safe from the great bot invasion and is now upgrading the server and bringing on more admins.

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