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The original was posted on /r/nostupidquestions by /u/throwawayzebra101 on 2023-09-02 00:29:22.

Ok I’ll admit I have thin privilege and I fit comfortably in any plane seat. But there’s been a few times where my seat mate was just spilling into my seat. I never know what to do here- I don’t want to make the person feel bad and be a jerk, but I also don’t think it’s fair to have my ride encumbered by someone who should’ve bought two seats. In the past when I’ve asked to put the arm rest down, they say they can’t because it doesn’t fit.