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I nuked my Reddit accounts today. Deleted all comments and posts, then the accounts themselves. The tool I used showed each comment as it was deleted, and it was bittersweet.

I watched old gaming and movie discussions I barely remember appear and then get flagged as deleted. Communities I once participated in and then moved on as the years past flashed by. I remembered how I felt back then, and then watched them scroll on into oblivion.

Now I feel...I guess it's grief. Sadness for that part that's gone. Sadness that it'll never be there again. Like footprints on a beach wiped away by the tide. It's like it never happened. There is no trace.

And I feel anger. Mad that it came to this. Mad that I let a corporation have so much of my time and thoughts. Mad that they made it clear my life was nothing but a product to them.

It's over now. Time for a new chapter.

Anyone else have strong feelings about losing a part of the past like this?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

For those asking, I used redact.dev to delete my stuff. It's available on lots of platforms including mobile.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Personally, I always deleted and re-created accounts after a year at most. Still have my current but I've hardly used it since migrating.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

When I deleted my account a few years back, I felt similar but mostly relief actually.

The sad part is that we spend so much of our lives in our phones. I don't like that it's reddit that gets the data, it's much better if it's not under some corporation, but I wish we enjoyed our lives more instead. But they are often boring and routine since our daily energy goes into working for someone so we can pay bills and have a place.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Yeah. I'm feeling like doing the same. I did not post much, and what I did, did not gain much traction. But I think it's time to leave that place.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

I was going to overwrite mine after 14 years but a significant event made me hold off. My home city in the UK has been in the news for all the wrong reasons and r/nottingham is useful to keep up with events without having to trawl through the mainstream media and all the right-wing trolling that follows them. Maybe next week when I get back home and things have calmed down.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

I couldn't truly nuke my account. I'm studying for mcat and r/MCAT has a ton of better explanations for aamc (test maker) practice tests.

I sort use Lemmy 90% and reddit 10%.

I also installed blacklist to filter out reddit content (their is a toggle to show hidden reddit searches in worst case if needed). This kinda helps give visibility to other sites.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

Nope, I did the same yesterday without looking back. I feel happy not to use this corporate crap anymore.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Not at all, I love deleting and forgetting old stuff

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I am struggling to go and do it myself but this helps seeing someone with 12 years of history. Would love to be able to download the 10,000+ pages of stuff I wrote though to not lose it forever.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

You can. Reddit will let you request a dump of your data. It's what I'm doing on my 11 yr old account, and once I have that for my own archives I'll nuke the account.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Over a decade on my account, not sure the actual year. I won't be nuking my account, personally. I'm happy with kbin for now and haven't opened reddit since Monday.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Same here for reddit. I won't remove my account just yet, but have unsubbed from a lot of fluff subs I was a part of.

Once RiF goes away I'll use desktop when needed for searches, but I never actually sit on it at a desktop. I'm hopeful all subs I use will come over, but some may not. Namely homelab and homelabsales.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I had this feeling when deleting another social media account. On a good note, it's fleeting. Now most are in the void for me.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Geez you didn’t save the content beforehand? I would absolutely have found a way to archive that stuff first

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

here's a question, wouldn't it be more impactful to encourage users to redact with a protest statement promoting fedverse first?

assuming they're doing a 30 day backup scheme then this becomes part of their working set going forward. messing with the data in this way especially if we can do it in volume might make it harder for LLMs to extract useful information from our noise.

we then can then start deleting our posts as a second protest after that.

thoughts?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Why delete though? Its all still there in Reddit's database.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This is called soft delete, if they are a EU resident, they can claim GDPR and get it all wiped, getting "forgotten" is a right.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Nice rights! Its probably harder to exercise than you'd think. Has anyone tried for Reddit?

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