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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 year ago (12 children)

I thought having a gf and getting laid would fix me. I am still the same, and now I am asexual because of this.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (11 children)

now I am asexual because of this

If you feel like sharing. How did that happen exactly?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (10 children)

Sex slowly lost its appeal since I took no pleasure from it. I still watch porn and jack off only so that I can get back to work and focus on it. I am genuinely considering sterilization.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think you ought to try a therapist first. I don't know your life but it kinda sounds like arousal might not be the root cause and something deeper is going on.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I dont really see this as something that major that would warrant professional help. I just dont feel sexual pleasure. There are other forms of pleasure. It's not that much of a big deal for me.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

Nothing wrong with asexuality if you arrive there by choice. I just think it's worth troubleshooting that loss of pleasure a little bit if you would like to be able to feel it, because it's pretty core to the human experience

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