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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago (18 children)

Thought fort the day.

Do you prescribe to a specific philosophy or doctrine?

I'm partial to Optimistic Nihilism.

Optimistic nihilism (ON) is a philosophical perspective that acknowledges the apparent lack of inherent meaning or purpose in the universe, positing that life's significance is not predetermined by external forces or cosmic plans. Instead, it asserts that individuals possess the freedom and autonomy to construct their own sense of meaning through personal exploration, experiences, and relationships. In the face of an indifferent universe, ON suggests that one can find purpose by embracing the impermanence of existence and living authentically, fully engaging with the present moment and making the most of the opportunities life presents. This perspective encourages a proactive and empowered approach to life, inviting individuals to create their own narratives and value systems that resonate with their unique experiences and aspirations.

Optimistic nihilism also contends that the absence of inherent meaning liberates individuals from the burden of conforming to external expectations or prescribed roles. Instead, it invites them to embrace their agency in shaping their own destinies. By recognizing the impermanence of all things, ON encourages a focus on the present and a celebration of life's fleeting moments. This philosophy fosters a deep appreciation for the beauty and richness of human experience, emphasizing the potential for personal growth, self-discovery, and the forging of meaningful connections with others. Ultimately, optimistic nihilism provides a framework for finding purpose in a seemingly indifferent universe, offering a path to lead a fulfilling and meaningful life grounded in individual autonomy and authentic self-expression.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Thanks for the insights. I've been following and reading about stoicism, which seems a bit similar. It also focuses on the here and now, and on what you can and cannot control (which is a lot). Doing the right thing is also an important aspect.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I like stoicism, is was the first philosophy that resonated with me, and still influences my thoughts. But if there is one criticism of stoic philosophy is is that it ignores the effect you have on others.

As you say, doing the right thing is an important aspect, but if something you do hurts someone else stoicism doesn't have a lot to say about it. It is a little self focused for my liking.

Optimistic nihilism folds the best parts of stocism in and adds responsibility for your actions, i.e. if it is important to you not to be thought of as a prick, then treating people well naturally falls from that. It you do something to hurt someone, it is your responsibility to make it right.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago

Good point about it being self focused.

Think how you describe optimistic nihilism is how I try to live mostly. I don't have a problem saying sorry like many people seem to have, and I am happy to admit when I was wrong. Especially with kids I think that's important. My father never said sorry for anything.

I've been raised Christian, and one core belief of it is to treat others like you want to be treated. I don't like many other things about Christianity though, but that's the one thing I'm sticking with.

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