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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 6 days ago (3 children)

Such a nostalgic read, I haven't heard about this debate in like a decade ๐Ÿฅฒ

I use bi because to me attraction to different genders feels distinctly different, but like, there's no divide. Use whatever feels right and don't assume things about others

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I'm pan, but tell most people I'm bi so I don't have to have an argument about the distinction between a term they likely know and is close enough and something they haven't heard of.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Weird, maybe it's just my friend circles. I have a couple of pan pals and it didn't come up even once

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 6 days ago

Yeah, I worded that oddly. I don't really bring it up, but I'm not putting myself in a position where I need to explain that to my evangelical grandparents or parents.