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I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. I want to surprise her by proposing to her and being all fancy for our hangout soon, but I don’t want to move too fast. 3 years should be fine, right??

Anyway, I’ll tell you how it goes!!

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Well, I heard a typical lesbianism first date involves a Uhaul. I don't think 3 yrs is too soon, if you're sure that's the person for you and you want to spend a life with. I'd say just be sure your partner feels the same way and you both have the same expectations before hurting yourself or another.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago

I proposed earlier! She was sooo happy