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The rainbow flag or pride flag is a symbol of LGBT pride and LGBT social movements. The colors reflect the diversity of the LGBT community and the spectrum of human sexuality and gender. Using a rainbow flag as a symbol of LGBT pride began in San Francisco, California, but eventually became common at LGBT rights events worldwide.

Originally devised by the artists Gilbert Baker, Lynn Segerblom, James McNamara and other activists, the design underwent several revisions after its debut in 1978, and continues to inspire variations. Although Baker's original rainbow flag had eight colors, from 1979 to the present day the most common variant consists of six stripes: red, orange, yellow, green, blue, and violet. The flag is typically displayed horizontally, with the red stripe on top, as it would be in a natural rainbow.

LGBT people and allies currently use rainbow flags and many rainbow-themed items and color schemes as an outward symbol of their identity or support. There are derivations of the rainbow flag that are used to focus attention on specific causes or groups within the community (e.g. transgender people, fighting the AIDS epidemic, inclusion of LGBT people of color). In addition to the rainbow, many other flags and symbols are used to communicate specific identities within the LGBT community.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

It's my first time existing during pride as slightly more than just an ally! flag-agender-pride flag-demi-pride

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

That seems a lot more than slightly to me tbh. Happy pride month :3

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago (4 children)

i won't speak for roux but not being an active target of oppression gives me a lot of, not imposter syndrome exactly, but a feeling that these counter cultural institutions that have been built aren't really for me because i don't need or benefit from them.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

i deleted a reply to roux essentially saying the same as you.

Maybe part of being ace is alienation... from allo culture, from gay culture, just... in general. A constant sense of trying to be something you're not.

i wonder often if our main struggle is with feelings of separateness". Not really a targeted 'outgroup', but not feeling part of any in-group. A curiosity if anything, like TNGs DATA. accepted, but not "part of the team"

it is a strange sensation, always separate, not really a part of any community. feeling fake, again like an android, peering out at allos with curious and sometimes envious eyes, always fighting a nebulous, deeply held fear that it's not just me, it's not damage, it's real.

i don't belong; because i can't understand, no one really wants me around.

dunno. probably just holdover feelings from all those years not knowing. years trying to fit with allos i couldn't understand, and the memories of the hurt eyes and name-calling i can't forget, people who took it personal when i didn't give them what i was supposed to.

AAAnyway, in the rare moments i see another gracie, i am heartened to see i share something, even if it's just the same feelings of confusion and alienation.

TLDR Im "happy" to see y'all around fightin thru the same feelings i do.

Happy Pride y'all!

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Yes! You! Ace comrades too!

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