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(advice, again) i just messaged my gf asking if it would be better to stay friends, scared she will hate me now. (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 3 months ago by drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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i’ll refrain from overposting but i’m a bit scared. kayla (20f) is my gf and (idk if she still is) but was a huge trump supporter. she was quite cruel to me because i first dated her as a trans man and she accused me of sexual harassment after we broke up.

we got back together and have been dating for quite some time (about 11 months) but we barely talk. she only plays video games and talks to her friends, so i barely chat with her, she rarely responds, and i don’t use Discord a lot where i chat with her.

i asked if this would work out and if she would prefer it if we were just friends, but im scared that she’ll accuse me of things again and make harassment/slander of me because i said that

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[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

okay, so she doesn’t even mention me anymore. i’m done. I’m tired of being the second option

[–] Kathrin@trouth.eu 6 points 3 months ago

@drbollocks I'm proud of you. You didn't deserve that.

Now treat yourself and remember this feeling whenever the doubts start creeping in.