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[–] [email protected] 54 points 2 years ago (14 children)

Safest bet in the world, husband is gayer than a unicorn fart

[–] [email protected] 48 points 2 years ago (13 children)

Claiming that someone's homophobia is because they are secretly gay is ultimately blaming the gays for said homophobia.

It's also entirely possible that someone is just a hateful piece of shit.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 years ago (6 children)

I get what you're saying.
But usually it's really they are a hateful piece of shit because they are secretly gay. The loudest ones tend to be the most secretly what they are yelling about.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 years ago (1 children)

i just don’t believe that that’s actually true, though. most homophobes are just pieces of shit, not secretly gay

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Well, that's just because ~~you're~~ Im an asshole.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 years ago (2 children)

… i’m an asshole because i think that homophobes are mostly bad people, not self-hating gay people?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Honestly, I misread what you said and thought you were saying angry gay people were mostly bad people. Lol yikes, I apologize

That's embarrassing

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 years ago

haha it’s all good

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

no you're not an asshole. I agree with you that some people are just homophobic pos and not secretly gay. But for this one in particular, if true, it's screaming insecurity rather than homophobia.

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